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Cake day: June 6th, 2025

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  • Honestly, you don’t do much of anything except wait when it comes to the results of HRT. You want to keep an eye on your levels and make sure your doctor isn’t giving you too low a level, but otherwise, it’s just a case of wait and see.

    HRT will cause new fat you lay down to lay down in different areas. But it takes time for everything to adjust and you might be able to nudge it here and there, but basically, it takes as long as it takes.

    I’m about 8 years in myself, and not much is changing these days (well, except for aging). But things were changing until around 5 or 6 years in.

    But, there’s lots you can do that isn’t just waiting for HRT. These days, I pretty much don’t do much of anything special in terms of getting dressed up and super fem, but my first couple of years were pretty much constant experimenting. I got a lot of good results from learning how to do basic makeup. I had no idea what my style was, so I just fucked around and found out (in a good way). That’s what you need to do :)





  • I want to see nomadic identity, but in the here and now, I love Friendicas timeline. It treats groups and microblog content exactly the same way, similar to the way Facebook and lemmy does it. Your timeline is made up of a series of posts, and you can order those posts however you want. All of the replies to those posts become visible when you click on a post to open it, but they otherwise don’t clutter up your timeline with hundreds of contextless replies. But the powerful thing is, it displays lemmy/kbin/piefed groups, friendica groups, gup.pe style groups and regular microblog content all in the same style, and all on the same timeline (but filterable)

    I wish more platforms did that!