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          Oh yes we spoke about that, sorry. I didn’t mean to try and convince you, it’s not for everyone.

          However, there aren’t many ‘strangers’ as such. It’s a very small community. We might get a tourist or two a night during summer but every other face I see I’ve seen before, usually many times :) And people who misbehave get banned.

          • Oh it was not meant to come harshly, we liked that previous conversation, as much as we like this exchange :)

            It is really amazing that spaces such as those were you feel safe enough to experience your fantasies exist ! We wish there were more, so that more people had opportunities to try it

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              Ooh thanks 🥰 Yes I’m lucky. In our city there’s 4 of them. We had 5 even but one of them was too big to be viable for our small community 😢

              And those are just for the more kinky people, there’s a few others that specialise purely in ropes (Shibari) which is a bit more arty but I rarely visit them because it’s not really my thing. And there’s the places for swingers too where you must come with a partner. Those are generally bigger but there’s not a big community, a lot of people just go once in a blue moon to spice things up.

              We get visitors from the US a lot and apparently it depends a lot on where they’re from. Some people have none or only a single one an hour’s drive away. Others have multiple and big ones, bigger than here.

              • This is really great :) I hope we see more pop up, as we’ve seen more sex shops open in the last decade, and especially more normalized sex shop as opposed to weird creepy places. People’s pleasure in general should be easier to discover and access :)

                We personally love visiting private play rooms, but prices are out of this world so it’s a rare occasion

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                  Ooh really, here it’s really affordable. You can get one for about 35€ for an hour and subsequent hours are cheaper, 45€ total for two hours etc). They even have Jacuzzis, and there’s a place that has swinger rooms: two bedrooms with a huge glass wall in between so you can watch the other couple and you can open the door for more if you like what you see 😅

                  And a fully equipped dungeon is about 60€ I think. I’ve never rented one, I prefer public play anyway.

                  And yeah I know what you mean about the creepy sex shops. We have a couple of old creepy ones but there’s probably 40-50 or so new high street sex ‘boutique’ shops in town, with all the high end glossy stuff like Lelo, Lovense, Fun Factory etc. The creepy “porn cabin” shops are kinda extinct.

                  • When we last wanted to, we wished for an overnight rental, and couldn’t find one beneath 200 euros in a 1hour driving radius, really disappointing because a few years ago we knew that we’d have no trouble finding that for 150 and often less. But we have not tried the places that do by the hour, perhaps it’d be fun but we’d probably be a bit stressed by the time constraints haha