| 1 month ago | mod | Banned  DragonTypeWyvern ( DragonTypeWyvern@midwest.social ) from the community reason: Long history of bigotry |
| 2 months ago | mod | Banned tlekiteki ( tlekiteki@lemmy.dbzer0.com ) from the community reason: History of racism and transphobia |
| 2 months ago | mod | Removed Comment For example, many young women who want to reproduce hurry to find a fitting reproduction partner. Doesnt apply to trans chicks. by tlekiteki ( tlekiteki@lemmy.dbzer0.com ) reason: transphobia |
| 2 months ago | mod | Removed Comment Okay, but being a trans woman isnt exactly being a girl. So you have to decide among the available options. by tlekiteki ( tlekiteki@lemmy.dbzer0.com ) reason: transphobia |
| 2 months ago | mod | Banned  алсааас [she/her] ( alsaaas@lemmy.dbzer0.com ) from the community reason: Transmed |
| 4 months ago | mod | Removed Post egg📏🔧irl reason: Rule 13: Egg Prime Directive. I'm not sure whether or not to remove, but erring on the side of caution. |
| 4 months ago | mod | Banned  wonderingwanderer ( wonderingwanderer@sopuli.xyz ) from the community reason: Transphobic apologia and mile long modlog |
| 6 months ago | mod | Banned  MentalEdge ( MentalEdge@sopuli.xyz ) from the community reason: Has posted sexually suggestive images of teen anime characters on multiple occasions. |
| 6 months ago | mod | Banned Zwiebel ( Zwiebel@feddit.org ) from the community reason: pedophilia |
| 6 months ago | mod | Banned  __反いじめ戦隊 ( AntiBullyRanger@ani.social ) from the community reason: transphobic spam |
| 6 months ago | mod | Banned __反いじめ戦隊 ( AntiBullyRanger@ani.social ) from the community reason: transphobic spam |
| 7 months ago | mod | Appointed birdwing ( birdwing@lemmy.blahaj.zone ) as a mod to the community |
| 7 months ago | mod | Removed  First Majestic Comet ( FirstMajesticComet@lemmy.blahaj.zone ) as a mod to the community |
| 7 months ago | mod | Removed  カニ風 [she/they] ( immortal_crab@lemmy.blahaj.zone ) as a mod to the community |
| 8 months ago | mod | Removed Comment In what sense of motivation?
Introverted, or extroverted?
Your own I/E, or hers, or the attention from others?
For the power over others, or to be the objective others chase?
To exploit that dynamic, or to be validated by its potential and existence? by  √𝛂𝛋𝛆 ( j4k3@piefed.world ) reason: Gatekeeping |
| 8 months ago | mod | Removed Comment Not trying to say anything politically charged at all. I don't care about that at all. Everyone is engaged in some level of motivations. It is okay if people do not want to talk about it.
I've been reading a lot of philosophy stuff and am just curious for the sake of curiosity.
Take for example, sex. Maslow's Hierarchy is admissible in most courts of law in the west. In that assessment, sex is a fundamental human need. That fact is also a form of objectification. By extension, all sexual activity is objectively taking care of one's fundamental human needs. So if all sex is objectified, how one chooses to sate that need could fall into many outlets. There is certainly a lot of choice to be made in that space. For instance, self actuation is an option. What is not a choice is whatever you find arousing, or interesting. I am no judge there. I do not care at all. I know what niches I find arousing and no one has a right to question or try to change that either. That is not what I am talking about.
Further, in sexual relations with others, there are narcissists and there are altruists. The narcissist is self centered and focused on claiming another; they are motivated by self gratification and domination. The altruist is motivated by giving and curiosity. They want to explore and find their partner's optimal experience. Within these two paradigms, I skimmed over two other branches for each. The narcissist may only be out to sate their own needs while not caring about power dynamics; motivated by introverted greed. On the other hand, they could be motivated by extroverted domination and not care about their needs as much.
Likewise, the "altruist" may be more of an explorer of many different paths. It may be centered in self; how can I perform at my best to better my partner's experience. It may be mutual; let's adventure together. It may be external; what would you like to explore.
There are always layers upon layers in such subjects. My initial questions had no malice behind them at all.
I came across a story where a trans person wanted to cosplay as every girl in every instance. The motivation struck me as a super odd form of narcissism, but perhaps it has some kernel of truth, like some people out in the world feel a desire to do the same. It does not bother me in the slightest either way. I am simply curious about the spectrum of people and differences that exist. Nothing more, nothing less. by √𝛂𝛋𝛆 ( j4k3@piefed.world ) reason: Gatekeeping |
| 8 months ago | mod | Removed Comment You do not understand philosophy well, or its meaning. None of what you said is true. It just shows that you do not understand what I said at all. It is okay. My family is exactly the same. I still care about them the same as I care about you. by √𝛂𝛋𝛆 ( j4k3@piefed.world ) reason: Gatekeeping |
| 8 months ago | mod | Removed Comment I'm just trying not to argue and be toxic because this place is terrible about such things. It is a major down side and prejudice that is hard to deal with when a person like myself is physically disabled and stuck in long term social isolation where this is my only source of external real human social contact. Unlike with diversity, there is no way to push back against that prejudice. It is rooted in the culture of the internet where people lack the same social peer pressure that regulates their behavior in the real world.
What I said in all instances was done out of simple curiosity using simple abstractions. My purpose is only to have an interesting positive conversation with digital neighbors. I have not prepared rhetoric. I have no desire to engage in negativity. I am no expert. Nothing I say is fit for or intended as scientific publication. I have no agenda. I am simply looking to expand my own understanding of people that have a solid grasp on who and what they are because it increases my potential for kindness, empathy, and understanding. The moment I spot tribalism and dogma, I stop engaging as these are not capable of logic or philosophical abstraction. The first sign of these comes from those that steal my narrative voice. Anyone that speaks for another in their stead lacks fundamental logic. Placing me in some tribal camp is dogmatic. I said nothing to make such an association. If I had quoted or cited someone, sure, but I did no such thing. I have never even heard of the person I am now in some imaginary tribalistic association with purely for the sake of having a curious conversation.
In other words, I am being attacked for information, error, and skepticism. These are unalienable human rights. The right to all information, the right to error, the right to skepticism, and the right to protest in all nonviolent forms are fundamental human rights in all democratic systems. When these are attacked, it is tyranny of authoritarianism. That is nothing more than tribalism and leads to barbarism.
It is ultimately a bad faith response to a conversation. This place lacks the depth to engage in advanced topics at a casual conversational level. That is stifling to my personal growth. Further, the avalanching negativity and bad faith tribalism are a very harmful prejudice because most people seem to assume the internet is an exception and place to vent their true selves. Face to face, no one would respond like this, or rather I would never associate with people that respond in bad faith. I have no real alternative. Therein lies the real prejudice. Stealing any form of human interaction in the public commons infers a person experiencing involuntary social isolation is not human, it strips meaning from life, it withholds basal human needs, and it motivates self harm.
Both the authoritarian left and authoritarian right are murder tribes that kill people on the margins. The marginalized people are different, but always consist of the innocent. I am one of those marginalized people too. I disengage to protect myself as best I can from tribalistic monsters. Dichotomous logic is incapable of real understanding which requires abstract logic skills. This is social media, not academy. It was just a conversation. Depth and engagement met with murder tribe response noted. One more feather on the punch my own ticket tally added. Mission accomplished. by √𝛂𝛋𝛆 ( j4k3@piefed.world ) reason: Gatekeeping |
| 8 months ago | mod | Banned √𝛂𝛋𝛆 ( j4k3@piefed.world ) from the community reason: Gatekeeping |
| 10 months ago | mod | Removed Comment Who the fuck cares. Needing the internet to affirm or deny your identity is pussy shit. by  know_your_place ( know_your_place@eviltoast.org ) reason: re-removing restored comment for removal refederation |
| 10 months ago | mod | Restored Comment Who the fuck cares. Needing the internet to affirm or deny your identity is pussy shit. by know_your_place ( know_your_place@eviltoast.org ) |
| 10 months ago | mod | Banned know_your_place ( know_your_place@eviltoast.org ) from the community reason: Transphobe |
| 1 year ago | mod | Removed Post TFW you broke your bffs egg because it was the logical thing to do reason: Post title must be some variation of Egg_irl |
| 1 year ago | mod | Banned finitebanjo ( finitebanjo@piefed.world ) from the community reason: Transmedicalist |
| 1 year ago | mod | Banned Outwit1294 ( Outwit1294@lemmy.today ) from the community reason: Misogynist |
| 1 year ago | mod | Unbanned Outwit1294 ( Outwit1294@lemmy.today ) from the community |
| 1 year ago | mod | Banned Outwit1294 ( Outwit1294@lemmy.today ) from the community reason: Misogynist |
| 1 year ago | mod | Removed Post Joining the community with a heavy heart — please read & share 💜 reason: Not a meme, not titled Egg_IRL |
| 1 year ago | mod | Removed Post The egg, unbroken! (_IRL) reason: Not a meme |
| 1 year ago | mod | Removed  GarfGirl [she/her] ( RoseTintedGlasses@lemmy.blahaj.zone ) as a mod to the community |
| 1 year ago | mod | Removed  Hellfire103 ( hellfire103@sopuli.xyz ) as a mod to the community |
| 1 year ago | mod | Removed  Baby Shoggoth [she/her] ( rubythulhu@lemmy.blahaj.zone ) as a mod to the community |
| 1 year ago | mod | Removed Triasha-she/her ( Triasha@lemmy.blahaj.zone ) as a mod to the community |
| 1 year ago | mod | Removed library_patron ( library_patron@lemmy.blahaj.zone ) as a mod to the community |
| 1 year ago | mod | Banned DoucheBagMcSwag ( DoucheBagMcSwag@lemmy.dbzer0.com ) from the community reason: Racism/Bigotry |
| 1 year ago | mod | Banned  yoriaiko ( yoriaiko@lemmy.blahaj.zone ) from the community reason: Don't imply that same sex attraction makes someone less or not cis. This is your one and only warning. expires: 1 year ago |
| 1 year ago | mod | Removed Post Egg 💋 irl reason: Implying gay attraction makes someone less cis |
| 1 year ago | mod | Removed Comment oh if only You like, what else to do, but *mmmwah*.
ImHo, the definition of "the dude" is to look at hot chicks only. As it tells about both gender and sexuality. This point of spectrum
(male straight) belongs to them, thats fair, let them be this way.
While You may belong to other point of spectrum, slightly different to "the dude", but still totally cis, and that's super fine too.
At least this is how I see the dude, and I can possibly be wrong. by yoriaiko ( yoriaiko@lemmy.blahaj.zone ) reason: Garbage comment trying to imply people are somehow less cis than "the dude" if they exhibit same-sex attraction |
| 2 years ago | mod | Banned ShiverMeTimbers ( ShiverMeTimbers@lemm.ee ) from the community reason: Alt of Malicious user @shinigamiookamiryuu@lemm.ee |
| 2 years ago | mod | Banned Call me Lenny/Leni ( shinigamiookamiryuu@lemm.ee ) from the community reason: Banned user on Blahaj participating in remote communities, this person has a history of bigotry, gatekeeping, and even pedophilia. |
| 2 years ago | mod | Banned compostgoblin ( compostgoblin@slrpnk.net ) from the community reason: Follow the Egg Prime Directive, don't presume someone's gender identity. expires: 2 years ago |
| 2 years ago | mod | Banned 12510198 ( 12510198@lemmy.blahaj.zone ) from the community reason: Not following the Egg prime directive |
| 2 years ago | mod | Removed Post egg🕥irl reason: Encourages and displays open violation of the Egg Prime Directive |
| 2 years ago | mod | Removed Post Voice meter on desktop reason: Not a meme |
| 2 years ago | mod | Removed Comment Just putting this out there: when I was younger I was desperate for anyone to suggest that I might be trans and if that had happened I would’ve cracked my egg years earlier than now. by Sop ( Sop@lemmy.blahaj.zone ) reason: R.13 Egging apologia. |
| 2 years ago | mod | Removed Post i swear reason: Title isn't Egg_irl or some variation, please observe post title rules |
| 2 years ago | mod | Removed Comment u wanna be some old ass bald guy? Whatever floats your boat I guess... by  Blazingtransfem98 ( Blazingtransfem98@discuss.online ) reason: Rude and cringe, Please be respectful in this community. |
| 2 years ago | mod | Removed Post %90 of Gender Bender fiction reason: Title not Egg_irl |
| 2 years ago | mod | Removed Comment Woah
 by  Oha ( Oha@lemmy.ohaa.xyz ) reason: Image spam in comments |
| 2 years ago | mod | Removed Comment you're green. by  pewgar_seemsimandroid ( pewgar_seemsimandroid@lemmy.blahaj.zone ) reason: Comment seems to come across as hostile |
| 3 years ago | mod | Removed Comment making a test post here, ignore me :) by Baby Shoggoth [she/her] ( rubythulhu@lemmy.blahaj.zone ) |
| 3 years ago | mod | Restored Comment making a test post here, ignore me :) by Baby Shoggoth [she/her] ( rubythulhu@lemmy.blahaj.zone ) |
| 3 years ago | mod | Removed Comment making a test post here, ignore me :) by Baby Shoggoth [she/her] ( rubythulhu@lemmy.blahaj.zone ) |
| 3 years ago | mod | Appointed First Majestic Comet ( FirstMajesticComet@lemmy.blahaj.zone ) as a mod to the community |
| 3 years ago | mod | Appointed カニ風 [she/they] ( immortal_crab@lemmy.blahaj.zone ) as a mod to the community |
| 3 years ago | mod | Appointed GarfGirl [she/her] ( RoseTintedGlasses@lemmy.blahaj.zone ) as a mod to the community |
| 3 years ago | mod | Removed Post Egg_irl |
| 3 years ago | mod | Removed Comment Thanks for clarifying. Looking at his profile, he seems to be a femboy and is insecure about it or something, either that or he is a troll. He has a lot of similar comments on other posts. by  Lumelore (She/her) ( Lumelore@lemmy.blahaj.zone ) |
| 3 years ago | mod | Removed Post egg🥚irl reason: Not a meme |
| 3 years ago | mod | Removed Post egg\_irl reason: I don't know where this was posted from, and I can't find the original |
| 3 years ago | mod | Appointed Baby Shoggoth [she/her] ( rubythulhu@lemmy.blahaj.zone ) as a mod to the community |
| 3 years ago | mod | Removed Post How I feel at 40 when my egg is cracking |
| 3 years ago | mod | Unfeatured Post [Meta] Seeking Moderators in community |
| 3 years ago | mod | Appointed NinjaFox ( NinjaFox@lemmy.blahaj.zone ) as a mod to the community |
| 3 years ago | mod | Appointed  phoenix_fairy ( phoenix_fairy@kbin.social ) as a mod to the community |
| 3 years ago | mod | Appointed Triasha-she/her ( Triasha@lemmy.blahaj.zone ) as a mod to the community |
