| 17 小时前 | mod | Banned  Garfunkel ( Garfunkel@lemmy.ca ) from the community reason: Troll |
| 21 小时前 | mod | Banned twygally ( twygally@lemmy.zip ) from the community reason: misgendering, total of three posts/comments that are all toxic |
| 2 天前 | mod | Removed Post Off to make rule worse reason: AI slop |
| 5 天前 | mod | Banned  Kangae_Hishiryo ( Kangae_Hishiryo@scribe.disroot.org ) from the community reason: Defending loli |
| 5 天前 | mod | Banned  Walters, Fern ( waltersf@bookwyr.me ) from the community reason: Swastika in post |
| 8 天前 | mod | Banned memer ( meme@k.fe.derate.me ) from the community reason: Spammer |
| 12 天前 | mod | Removed Post Phone_wallpaper_rule reason: Slop |
| 13 天前 | mod | Banned JustPlainDave ( JustPlainDave@lemmy.zip ) from the community reason: troll, pro oppression |
| 13 天前 | mod | Unbanned the_q ( the_q@piefed.social ) from the community reason: Removed ban after DM conversation and apology |
| 14 天前 | mod | Removed Post Don't mind if i rule reason: jokes involving real domestic abuse |
| 15 天前 | mod | Banned the_q ( the_q@piefed.social ) from the community reason: Phobe |
| 15 天前 | mod | Banned MrSnotty ( MrSnotty@lemmy.zip ) from the community reason: transphobia |
| 15 天前 | mod | Removed Comment And then those teenagers commit suicide in their 20s because they made a very mistake.
I think if you want to mutilate your body, feel free but do it once you're an adult. Full accountability. by MrSnotty ( MrSnotty@lemmy.zip ) reason: transmedacalism |
| 18 天前 | mod | Banned Waterpumpee ( Waterpumpee@lemmus.org ) from the community reason: Phobe |
| 18 天前 | mod | Removed Comment > textlog is a simple social text log: write short notes, follow people and hashtags, and join conversations without turning every thought into a performance.
>
> Notes are limited to 500 characters. The constraint keeps them quick to write and read, making room for one thought at a time.
https://textlog.cc/
by  rnercle ( merde@sh.itjust.works ) reason: no advertizing |
| 20 天前 | mod | Removed Post All men rule reason: caustic discussion |
| 20 天前 | mod | Locked Post All men rule |
| 20 天前 | mod | Removed Comment Some trans people, I call them the "menu" type, are able to get around the "all men" phenomenon. Good for them. They get to live a life without the wall, but when they encounter the part of society that doesn't accept trans people they get stamped out first, because it's clear that they were doing this for a non-aesthetic reason, i.e the experience of friendship. The trans men of this type get exempted from 'all men' because women are inherently inconsistent about this framing, and the trans women and nonbinaries of this type get to experience a normal life until something bad happens.
Similarly, and from the other side, the lesbian has the ability to adopt an aesthetic that signals she doesn't fear anything, and this can quickly land her in a male friend group if she desires it. by story ( story@lemmy.zip ) reason: Transphobia |
| 20 天前 | mod | Banned story ( story@lemmy.zip ) from the community reason: Transphobia |
| 20 天前 | mod | Unbanned story ( story@lemmy.zip ) from the community |
| 23 天前 | mod | Removed Post antirulepressants reason: ai slop |
| 25 天前 | mod | Removed Post Soapy tittes rule reason: nsfw allowed but no porn |
| 26 天前 | mod | Removed Post Dressed as a rule "as a joke" for Halloween reason: Invalidation of gender nonconformity; universalizing the trans experience |
| 27 天前 | mod | Banned SirEDCaLot ( SirEDCaLot@lemmy.today ) from the community reason: transphobia |
| 27 天前 | mod | Removed Comment In concept I agree completely.
I also believe in empathy. I have empathy for the trans woman who doesn't want to feel excluded. I also have sympathy for the cis woman who lives her life thinking she's safer with a bear than a man, feeling upset that there might be a person with a penis in a place that used to be a safe space for her.
That doesn't mean I want to take away the rights of the trans woman. It means I have empathy.
Not everything is black and white. by SirEDCaLot ( SirEDCaLot@lemmy.today ) reason: transphobia |
| 27 天前 | mod | Removed Comment Isn't that the point?
A liberal sees a trans woman as a woman with different anatomy. A conservative sees a trans woman as a man wearing women's clothing.
That's where the disconnect lies. The conservative is saying don't let men in the womens bathroom no matter how they dress. The liberal is saying don't force women to go in the mens bathroom due to different biology.
Personally I have no idea what the answer is here. In general I favor letting people use whichever bathroom they choose, but I can sympathize with both sides. by SirEDCaLot ( SirEDCaLot@lemmy.today ) reason: transphobia |
| 27 天前 | mod | Banned plantfanatic ( plantfanatic@sh.itjust.works ) from the community reason: sexism |
| 27 天前 | mod | Removed Comment ???
Are you generalizating all men? This is the problem lmfao, of course someone would prove the point in seconds…. by plantfanatic ( plantfanatic@sh.itjust.works ) reason: sexism + transphobia |
| 27 天前 | mod | Removed Comment Who’s scolding women? Any generalization is bad, harmful and/or damaging, I never said anything about women, so why are you adding it?
You’ve went and done the exact thing in your comment multiple times, you’re the problem, and are perpetuating it. by plantfanatic ( plantfanatic@sh.itjust.works ) reason: sexism + transphobia |
| 27 天前 | mod | Removed Comment What’s worse, using gender neutral terms in any situation to normalize it, or someone using it to only argue in bad faith and nothing else?
Everyone’s a dude as well, don’t perpetuate this stuff, be better.
by plantfanatic ( plantfanatic@sh.itjust.works ) reason: sexism + transphobia |
| 27 天前 | mod | Removed Comment Yes anyone can bitch, do you think that’s a word that can only be used against a specific gender/sex?
Don’t be part of the problem. And don’t take words out of context to make your point. by plantfanatic ( plantfanatic@sh.itjust.works ) reason: sexism + transphobia |
| 27 天前 | mod | Removed Comment So they’re making a fuss and bitching over one generalization while also using their own?
What’s upsetting is people don’t see an issue with this. by plantfanatic ( plantfanatic@sh.itjust.works ) reason: sexism + transphobia |
| 27 天前 | mod | Banned Phanlix ( Phanlix@lemmy.zip ) from the community reason: Transphobe. Should probably be instance banned |
| 27 天前 | mod | Removed Comment Okay so here's my problem. I support trans people, go get the surgery, take your pills, be happy.
But there are issues. First off being sports. If a female athlete takes even a single dose of testosterone, ever, and it's caught, they're banned for life. Why? Because testosterone creates permanent musculoskeletal changes. If someone goes through puberty as a boy and transitions later, it's the same as if they had dosed testosterone as a female. Their bones are denser, and they have more muscle mass, period. Medical science can't erase that.
Second, while I will make every effort to use your new pronouns and name, I will personally never consider you to be fully of the opposite sex. Biologically, you're still rocking the same chromosomes. I would personally never date someone that transitioned to female as I would never be comfortable with it, and hoo boy it's certainly unacceptable to some people that cis men can have their own sexual preferences.
So I guess here's a question? Is that level of support enough? Or should I, having voted lifelong as a Democrat switch to voting Republican? Because I swear to god, I've met you guys as far at the midpoint as I'm comfortable with, and I've been very vocally told that's not enough. So should I just drop all trans support now? Let me know through your comments, and if this earns a deleted comment or a ban, I'll take that as, vote Trump next election. by Phanlix ( Phanlix@lemmy.zip ) reason: Transphobia |
| 27 天前 | mod | Removed Post Far-right Polish politician picking up an anime *rule*boy reason: sharing bigoted propaganda (even if unintentionally) |
| 27 天前 | mod | Banned Dishronor ( Dishronor@lemmy.zip ) from the community reason: transphobia |
| 27 天前 | mod | Removed Comment Operations do not change biological sex. Because it is determined not only by external characteristics but also by DNA by Dishronor ( Dishronor@lemmy.zip ) reason: transphobia |
| 28 天前 | mod | Removed Comment Example, SFW
I want someone to grab me by the hips, pull my hair and fuck me till I can’t walk straight :3 by  gwl [he/him] ( gwl@lemmy.blahaj.zone ) reason: untagging NSFW content |
| 28 天前 | mod | Banned NewSocialWhoDis ( NewSocialWhoDis@lemmy.zip ) from the community reason: transphobia |
| 28 天前 | mod | Removed Comment >There are only two logically consistent answers
wrong. by commie ( commie@lemmy.dbzer0.com ) reason: bait, rude |
| 28 天前 | mod | Removed Post The floor is rule meets “I need to go really bad!” reason: not marked nsfw |
| 29 天前 | mod | Removed Comment You're good homie by Assassassin ( Assassassin@lemmy.dbzer0.com ) reason: be nice |
| 1 个月前 | mod | Removed Post Railed at a rave...rule [CW: I don't think this is non-con in the slightest but adding this CW anyway just in case, CW: OP getting unhinged and descriptive, CW: absolute pornography] reason: porn |
| 1 个月前 | mod | Banned ruuster13 ( ruuster13@lemmy.zip ) from the community reason: Gatekeeping |
| 1 个月前 | mod | Removed Post Neck rule reason: Refusal to use content warnings or NSFW tags |
| 1 个月前 | mod | Banned selokichtli ( selokichtli@lemmy.ml ) from the community reason: defending rapists, victim blaming |
| 1 个月前 | mod | Removed Comment EDIT: I'm not easily ashamed of what I think, and I express my ideas even if they are not popular. I won't pick fights with zealots, though. You want to discuss, I'm here regularly. You want to shame me, well, guess what, I love you. by selokichtli ( selokichtli@lemmy.ml ) reason: victim blaming |
| 1 个月前 | mod | Removed Post Boss cat rule reason: likely AI |
| 1 个月前 | mod | Removed Comment *Permanently Deleted* by Schmuppes ( Schmuppes@lemmy.today ) deleted by creator reason: misgendering |
| 1 个月前 | mod | Banned kibblebits ( kibblebits@quokk.au ) from the community reason: Way too many red flags in the mod log |
| 1 个月前 | mod | Removed Post shark rule reason: ai slop |
| 2 个月前 | mod | Removed Post Probrulematic 2: The Promised Future King reason: inflammatory, threat, (chud energy and not funny) |
| 2 个月前 | mod | Removed Post Poruleitics reason: AI slop |
| 2 个月前 | mod | Removed Post Wizard [Rule] reason: openly admitted ai |
| 2 个月前 | mod | Removed Comment I like interacting with butch (not sure if that term is still in vogue, havent had the courage to ask) lesbians, they're never as bitter as the fems. by Redditmodstouchgrass ( Redditmodstouchgrass@lemmy.zip ) reason: be nice, stereotyping |
| 2 个月前 | mod | Removed Post rulesekai adventure reason: avoid ai slop |
| 2 个月前 | mod | Locked Post A Mod's gotta [Rule] what a Mod's gotta [Rule] |
| 2 个月前 | mod | Removed Post glamorule reason: AI + cruel treatment of animals |
| 2 个月前 | mod | Removed Post 9/11 Payback rule reason: Islamaphobia |
| 2 个月前 | mod | Removed Post Agender Rule reason: gender essentialism |
| 2 个月前 | mod | Removed Comment It's because she really wants to be a man, and takes her (his?) aggression about penis envy out on trans people.
She prefers "JK" because it's more masculine
The real reason Joanne hates trans women is because they're giving up being a man, the thing JK wants most of all.
Edit: It is no accident that JK Rowling has never written a female POV character by QueenHawlSera ( QueenHawlSera@piefed.social ) reason: misgendering |
| 2 个月前 | mod | Removed Comment Homophobes ARE closeted gays, you think it's a concidence Grindr keeps crashing anytime there's a Republican convention? by QueenHawlSera ( QueenHawlSera@piefed.social ) reason: reinforcing stereotypes |
| 2 个月前 | mod | Locked Post uspol r(ule)ant |
| 3 个月前 | mod | Locked Post Healthy ruleationships |
| 4 个月前 | mod | Removed  kittenzrulz123 ( kittenzrulz123@lemmy.blahaj.zone ) as a mod to the community |
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| 4 个月前 | mod | Removed  kittenzrulz123 ( kittenzrulz123@piefed.blahaj.zone ) as a mod to the community |
| 5 个月前 | mod | Locked Post Defensive Voting |
| 7 个月前 | mod | Locked Post Don't waste my time by being a F(rule) |
| 8 个月前 | mod | Locked Post Breed Specific Legislation Rule |
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| 1 年前 | mod | Locked Post I'm tired of ruling so much |
| 1 年前 | mod | Locked Post rulecist |
| 1 年前 | mod | Locked Post Republican Commentator Joey Mannarino Calls For All Trans People in the U.S. to be Detained and Studied - Out in STL |
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