The mods there have decided to allow underage looking content, skirting close to CP. Unless we want such disgusting stuff on our feed, I think we should defederate from that instance.

Pinging @ernest as well.

    • Access to content should not be difficulted by puritan views. If people enjoy gore and create an instance about gore in movies showing very explicit (yet fictional) images of dismemberments and stuff in movies it should be banned too because is morally questionable?

      If you can’t distinguish between fiction and reality it should be a you problem not the whole instance you are inhabiting problem

      What do you think about this? (sorry the article is in Spanish, but there is no English article)

      https://es.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ni%C3%B1os_en_la_playa

      It’s a painting exposed in an important museum

          • Let’s flip that argument: should we all abide by American standards? After all, nudity is ok in a lot of places in the world, why should we blur chests?

            Tons of countries ban underage looking things, even digital art of it. Countries with bans include Canada, Australia, the UK, France, South Korea, Ireland, Norway, etc.

          • We’re not talking about pornography laws that were enacted with no basis in harm reduction, we’re talking about child porn laws that were enacted to not encourage and normalize pedophiles and pedophilia.

            Some laws are justifiable, some are arguable, and some are completely unjustifiable, throwing out an unjustifiable one in contrast to a firmly justifiable one is not debating, it’s childish nonsense.

          • Underage fictional content is banned in first world countries like South Korea, Ireland, Norway, Canada, Australia, New Zealand and France. Do you really want to lump the very real discrimination that LGBTQ people face with someone’s desire to get off to a 5 year old, sorry - 5000 year old school girl?

            • loli/shota don’t refer to underage fictional content.

              I think this loli/shota hate can indeed lead to real oppression yes. I’m an adult, I look like a minor. Do you believe it should be illegal for me to send nsfw photos of myself to people? To have a relationship with another adult? simply because I look underage? This is the sort of thing we’re talking about here. Should I be banned from posting pics of myself simply because of the way I look?

              lemmynsfw already explicitly stated they ban underage content. so to bring up underage content is dishonest.

              • I think this confusion comes from the phrasing of the original post, which was ambiguous about allowing underage content. Also, there’s a difference between being an adult and looking teenage, and looking like a literal child (which I doubt you do). But regardless of appearances, you’re a real person whose age we can verify. And yes, I’m a proponent of verifying people’s ages.

                An ambiguous image of a person that looks 10, but whose creator insists she’s a 5000 year old dragon, doesn’t hold up in many courts. Many international courts say “nice try but that’s a 10 year old”. And I don’t disagree with them. Overall I just don’t get it? Why the need to have that stuff on the major NSFW instance? By all means, put it on a side instance that can get blocked and banned, and if you really need to see it, either join a Lemmy that’s super lax or roll your own.

                • Again, loli does not refer to age. You’re confused. There are underage and underage looking anime characters. some who are loli and some who are not.

                  this isn’t “they’re a child and I just say they’re older”. non-loli anime children look different from loli anime adults.

                  lemmynsfw is clearly banning underage content and content that looks underage.

                  no matter how much you wish to try and twist words, the reality is that “oppai loli” is a thing that exists, and simply cannot refer to a child. to say that such is a child just shows you do not understand biology.

                  In terms of legality, I agree that if the server host is somewhere with particular laws, it’s understandable that those laws must be followed. Perhaps lemmynsfw’s ruling leads to illegal content for wherever kbin is hosted. In that case, I think it is fine for kbin to defederate.

                  Loli/shota do not refer to age. And lemmynsfw afaik has not allowed illegal content.

                  • I looked underage for most of my adult life thus far, guess what I did? Dealt with it and enjoyed my life, I didn’t insist that we should be able to freely publish nudes of myself so that pedos can jerk off to them.

                    Hell we’re not even talking about free society here, if you look underage but are overage you’re still free to exhibit your body in whatever art exhibit you want, digital or irl, that doesn’t mean kbin should allow potentially illegal loli content to show up in users’ feeds.

                  • I’m confused by your definition. When googling Loli, you get the lolicon Wikipedia page which has an image of girls that look… I’d say maybe 10? And Loli is named after Lolita, who in the book is like 12? I’m not seeing anywhere linking the definition of Loli to women that look clearly 18+ in any way. I’m not even seeing strong ties between Loli and girls that look 16.

                    My argument is that to appease the large number of countries that ban drawn lolicon, the biggest NSFW instance should take a safe stance and ban that content across the board. I don’t care if other instances serve the needs of those who love lolicon, I’m happy to personally block any that pop up even if my instance doesn’t. But the biggest NSFW instance can distances themselves. This is clearly a contentious issue and it is one that the international community hasn’t made a firm decision on.

              • This has nothing to do with banning and everything to do with filtering. Especially at this early moment when everyone lacks the ideal tools and functions to curate your iwn content across the Fediverse.
                For now, you can always access both kbin and lemmy from a third instance thats federated with both, regardless of their direct federation to each other. When more tools exist for users to curate their own experience we can always federated up again.

            • Underage fictional content is banned in first world countries like South Korea, Ireland, Norway, Canada, Australia, New Zealand and France.

              Ireland is a third world country, literally

              The term “Third World” arose during the Cold War and it was used to define countries that remained non-aligned with either NATO or the Warsaw Pact.

              https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Third_World

              And Ireland remained neutral, like other countries Finland, Sweden, Switzerland or Austria, making those countries third world countries, literally

              Saying or implying third world countries are underdeveloped/poor countries is just a really bad stereotipe and shows your inculture

              • Yeah ok, I really love that Reddit’s crappy pedantry about stuff that doesn’t matter is bleeding into the new world. First world, to most of us not using 50 year old definitions, means countries universally accepted to have decent human rights. The topic reeled into the Middle East’s laws surrounding LGBTQ people, which is a shit argument when talking about banning underage looking content which happens even in countries with great LGBTQ rights. Let’s not pretend that the world is this fantastic equal place where the human experience is just dandy across the board.

                Also I’m from a third world country! Yugoslavia was the founder of the neutral Non-Aligned movement. That makes it, by most definitions, third world.

      • I have no idea about the context of that painting, but I don’t think the children are being sexualised in it. The under-age content that will be posted on lemmynsfw (fictional or not) will definitely be sexual in nature, and that is deeply problematic and might also be illegal in several countries. They can do whatever they want with their instance, but the users of kbin.social shouldn’t have to be looking at such content.

        • but the users of kbin.social shouldn’t have to be looking at such content.

          Idk, as kbin.social user I was not looking to such content until you mentioned it. And since I don’t follow that instance I will not be looking to such content in the future

          • You do “follow” that instance because you are part of kbin.social which is federated with it. You could go in and block each of the magazines/threads from there or whatever the term is on Lemmy, and block the users you don’t want to see content from, but kbin.social is federated with lemmynsfw, so that content has the ability to show up in your “all” or “random” feeds unless we defederate -which is the question being asked. So you very well could really l easily have that content in your feed in the best future

            • You do “follow” that instance because you are part of kbin.social which is federated with it

              No, I don’t. My starting page is https://kbin.social/sub so I only see magazines I’m subscribed to. And most often than not I have federation turned off, as I find duplicated content annoying and useless

              Rather than blacklisting magazines I whitelist magazines and I only see the content I want.

              Also, I removed the “random posts” section with uBlock origin (uBlock origin does more than just blocking ads, you can select and remove parts of a website entirely, by doing that the website work load is reduced and also loads faster), so this situation you describe:

              So you very well could really l easily have that content in your feed in the best future

              won’t happen

              The only feature I really miss is having content ordered by “newest” by default (something I had on reddit using the third party app “Joey”)

      • If you want legally questionable material, gore, or other shit, you’re free to spin up your own instance. Your access to it is not being fettered.

        You’re just not entitled to access it using someone else’s website.

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        Heh. If we’re giving examples from art, probably the most-famous romance work in the English language is Romeo and Juliet.

        https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Romeo_and_Juliet

        Juliet Capulet, the 13-year-old daughter of Capulet, is the play’s female protagonist.

        That being said, I don’t think that a work being part of cultural canon entails that someone needs to personally consider it acceptable to themselves.