How old were you when you began questioning/considering you weren’t “normal”? I’m in my 30s and almost all at once feel like I’m not sure what I am in most demensions and struggling to figure out what I feel about anything. I’ve been married, happily for a while, which adds a little to the confusion.
Define normal…
Was my mid 30s when I realised that I did find other men attractive…
Was 40 when I realised I was attracted regardless of gender and that I enjoyed playing with both types of genitalia as well…
Now 41 and only just beginning to understand my queerness with genderfluidity…