My ex runs into this all the time when hes out with our son.
People always say things like “giving mom a day off?” Or “got stuck babysitting, huh?”
When he took our son to a baby group (i had to go back to work first) apparently most of the moms assumed he was a widower. (Why else would he be at a morning baby group?) Eventually one of the other moms asked him, “we were wondering, when did your wife pass away?” - its really ludicrous.
I agree!! I think there was probably just some kind of misunderstanding, but the lady who asked him was still pretty quick to assume. But still, just a very wild thing to ask somebody even if you were certain they had lost their partner.
My ex runs into this all the time when hes out with our son.
People always say things like “giving mom a day off?” Or “got stuck babysitting, huh?”
When he took our son to a baby group (i had to go back to work first) apparently most of the moms assumed he was a widower. (Why else would he be at a morning baby group?) Eventually one of the other moms asked him, “we were wondering, when did your wife pass away?” - its really ludicrous.
I don’t see under what circumstances that would be an ok question to ask.
I agree!! I think there was probably just some kind of misunderstanding, but the lady who asked him was still pretty quick to assume. But still, just a very wild thing to ask somebody even if you were certain they had lost their partner.