Honestly if you’re going out to eat with someone the phones should stay in pockets or bags
If you’re making the effort to go out you should be there not on your phones
It depends. I spend so much time with my beat friend that we don’t always have things to talk about. Sometimes we get coffee and just sit around and read or look at shit on our phones.
Tbh I wouldn’t mind my kids looking at their phones… what does it matter if the games they play are analog or digital? I’m talking about the sitting in the restaurant kind of situation, where kids usually draw, read or do other stuff to entertain themselves.
It’s not a matter of analog or digital games but a matter of going out to eat with people you care about and sharing that time with them
Yeah but if your kids are young they see you every day, so… it’s different if you don’t see each other often.
And my example was more meant for people who argue that they are fine with kids drawing when you’re out for food (which most younger kids do), but are annoyed when they use a phone to play.
Drawing can be more of group thing and can turn into conversation. Like asking them about what they’re drawing etc.
Being on the phone is a more of a personal experience and has less opportunities for conversation and whatnot
Teach ya kids to share memes then
lol
That’s a subjective thing I would say. Many people on here would agree that playing a game can also turn into a conversation. If my kids were to play Pokemon or Zelda for example, I could engage with it quite well. It just depends if you know the franchise/culture, making it easier to resonate with.
And tbh I didn’t particularly enjoy my family looking at my drawings when I was younger, cause I didn’t wanna get a comment about it.
I have autism and probably ADHD, eating without something else to stimulate me is absolute misery and if you tell me to put away my phone i’m going to start avoiding eating with you.
The something else is… The person you’re eating with?
Not in my experience, my boomer dad doesn’t exactly have much in commin with me, he wants to talk about sports and i want to talk about technology.
We just both pull out our phones and appreciate the presence of the other, you don’t have to talk to people to be social.
I mean as long as it’s cool with the other person I guess it doesn’t hurt
I take observing the ambient isn’t enough stimulation in that case?
With what did they take the picture?
I knew it!
Honestly, given how old this meme is, I wouldb’t be surprised
That’s the trap the restaurant uses to get out of giving 10% off.
You’re on to something…
At least they can’t give you QR menus.
Yea cause kids totally wanna have a conversation with their shitty father.
Why is the father shitty
In this case it’s because he’s clearly making them pose for the photo for internet credit
I think it’s funny that the idea that they’re all having fun taking a silly photo is beyond the realm of possibility
Moral of the story: always travel with your laptop.
if someone keeps pulling out their phone while you’re eating with them, have you considered that you might just not be good company?
How was the photo made then?
https://lemmy.blahaj.zone/comment/6398153 The world’s top scientists have already solved it luckily!
I’ll give a pass to a quick check if it’s potentially something vital, but your latest post and the responses can wait for an hour. Focus on the moment at hand. Same gripe I have with people who sit there and film an entire concert rather than watch it.
this sentiment is just gonna make people not want to be around you though, maybe be more interesting to talk to if you want people to not pull out their phone?
It’s perfectly fine to just spend time around others without interacting with them, it’s basically just parallel play for adults.
And in many cases this sentiment is just straight up ableist, people with autism/ADHD commonly use their phone to keep themselves stimulated and happy, if you tell such a person to put away their phone you’re being a massive dick.
I may not actively tell them to put it away, but it’ll be noted for the future to determine if I feel like bothering to go with them.
I have a young kid, if they have a friend over and put on some single player game while their friend just sits there I’m going to point out that it’s rude to have someone over and not include them in what you’re doing.
“Joyful parents and dismayed kids…”
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“Hurray! Our children are unhappy! This is our goal as parents for some reason…”
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You know you’re the parents right? You don’t need to rely on the authority of others to tell your kids not to have their phones out at dinner? You can just do that yourself.
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So if my wife and I want to look up the answer to a question, or check our calendar, we get charged more? Good business strategy there…
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So confused by this. Peter Griffin is definitely a boomer himself.
I feel like the original post rustled some jimmies
More like, everyone poses for a funny pic
