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 ApfelstrudelWAKASAGI   ( @ApfelstrudelWAKASAGI@feddit.de )  to 196@lemmy.blahaj.zone · 2 years ago

Romeo and Juliet got nothing on this

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Romeo and Juliet got nothing on this

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 ApfelstrudelWAKASAGI   ( @ApfelstrudelWAKASAGI@feddit.de )  to 196@lemmy.blahaj.zone · 2 years ago
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  •  Kaity   ( @Kyatto@leminal.space ) 
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    Spoiler alert: It was his heart.

  •  AFC1886VCC   ( @AFC1886VCC@reddthat.com ) 
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    •  hex_m_hell   ( @hex_m_hell@slrpnk.net ) 
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      He’s a malignant narcissist. It takes a long time to escape that kind of programing. Being in a relationship like that is basically like being in a cult.

      •  exocrinous   ( @exocrinous@startrek.website ) Banned
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        •  hex_m_hell   ( @hex_m_hell@slrpnk.net ) 
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          Abusers are often victims first. You can’t really look at Musk, or any billionaire, and think, “yeah, this person is totally fine.” He’s not. None of them are.

          Patriarchy and capitalism reward the unhealthy coping mechanism he uses to protect his ego. Patriarchy specifically asserts that those coping mechanisms are not only normal but optimal.

          He’s absolutely a victim of this system and in a functional one he would be given help instead of power, which is literally the opposite of what he needs to be able to recognize his problems and heal.

          He is who he is because the only way he can see himself as valuable at all is if he’s basically the savior of the world. Anything less than that is unacceptable garbage. Anyone who believes differently must be manipulated or destroyed.

          There’s no way he can ever be happy. He needs help. It’s tragic that we live in a society where he can’t even see how much he needs help.

          None of that takes away from the behaviors he expresses. The fact that his manipulation of others comes from his insecurity doesn’t take away from the manipulation, the feeling of unreality, that comes from experimenting that manipulation. Both of these things can and do exist at the same time.

          •  exocrinous   ( @exocrinous@startrek.website ) Banned
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        •  WamGams   ( @WamGams@lemmy.ca ) 
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          I would suggest that narcissists and borderlines are vulnerable minorities solely because they almost always refuse treatment until it is no longer their legal choice to do so.

          An adult with untreated narcissism is almost certainly going to be the least vulnerable person in all of their chosen relationships at any time.

          •  exocrinous   ( @exocrinous@startrek.website ) Banned
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            •  WamGams   ( @WamGams@lemmy.ca ) 
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              We can recognize that somebody was a victim as a child, and recognize that may be the reason they are a danger today, but if they are untreated, and if you personally aren’t a doctor, you are likelier to be their victim than the other way around.

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                •  WamGams   ( @WamGams@lemmy.ca ) 
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                  Alex Jones is a diagnosed narcissist. Tell me about his victimization and how he isn’t an abuser.

            •  newtraditionalists   ( @newtraditionalists@beehaw.org ) 
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              Gross

          •  lars   ( @lars@lemmy.sdf.org ) 
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            I hate this ride and I want people I know to get some fucking help instead of narcisizing all over my life.

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      I get the impression she has very little “real world” experience, particularly with people.

    •  FakeGreekGirl   ( @FakeGreekGirl@lemmy.blahaj.zone ) 
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      I watched my mom go through a lot of bad relationships and thought the exact same thing.

      Sometimes people can’t get out. Sometimes they don’t think they want to, until something finally gets through to them.

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      There’s a track record to suggest Grimes is a Nazi sympathizer. Elon’s LGBTQ+ rhetoric just hits closer to home, so she clutches pearls over it. Not a fan of either of them.

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    he does not refer to anyone as he is too self-obsessed for that

    edit: narcissism is a mental illness, i’m sorry if i offended anyone. when i made the comment i thought i could use it as a way of saying he’s self-obsessed, and knowing very little about mental illnesses i didnt even know NPD was a thing. if the term self-obsessed is also bad, please give me ideas for what i should change the word into

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      •  tubaruco   ( @tubaruco@lemm.ee ) 
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        i didnt know that. im sorry if i insulted anyone, ill edit my comment now

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    •  neptune   ( @neptune@dmv.social ) 
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      “I don’t have pronouns. Please do not refer to me.”

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    “…give me a dall.” Dall?

    •  nublug   ( @nublug@lemmy.blahaj.zone ) 
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      it’s a typo, why does this have 4 upvotes lmao

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        Oh, okay. Calling it a typo just seemed too easy. I thought I was missing something.

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        •  ag_roberston_author   ( @ag_roberston_author@beehaw.org ) 
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          Call

  •  outer_spec   ( @outer_spec@lemmy.blahaj.zone ) 
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    bro think she steven universe

  •  AVincentInSpace   ( @AVincentInSpace@pawb.social ) 
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    in fairness to elon musk pronouns do suck. call me by my first name only

    •  paholg   ( @paholg@lemm.ee ) 
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      And yet you refer to yourself by pronouns multiple times in that very comment.

    •  🐠 tiago🍍   ( @tiago@beehaw.org ) 
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      genuinely, why do they suck?

      •  AVincentInSpace   ( @AVincentInSpace@pawb.social ) 
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        that comment was a joke (i personally do not feel that way) but i do know people who have a tough enough time nailing down their gender that none of the options really feel right

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        the act is disrespectful, to refer to human beings using pronouns; by referring to people using fully qualified names, respect and humility is shown. pronouns are a declaration of war on the attributed creature, as immense inferiority is implied. societies created names with purpose – and to sidestep names is to break the fabric of culture!

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    _ agree! _ fucking hate ____

  •  Alien Nathan Edward   ( @reverendsteveii@lemm.ee ) 
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    Everyone has fumbled a relationship with someone who feels like the once in a lifetime hottie. Please just go to therapy and meditate for a few my a day.

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