- unexposedhazard ( @unexposedhazard@discuss.tchncs.de ) 64•2 months ago
I would if i had curves like dat. With my flat ass, that just looks like shit.
- eldavi ( @eldavi@lemmy.ml ) 28•2 months ago
when i was very young, men would wear booty shorts and belly shirts like some women do now; publicly shirtless men was also more common; and, as an adult, i wish i could have appreciated it more than i did at the time.
i hate that prudery has become so en vogue these days with the young.
- lightnsfw ( @lightnsfw@reddthat.com ) 25•2 months ago
how do you keep it from dangling out the leg?
- leviathan ( @leviathan@programming.dev ) 19•2 months ago
Short
- Match!! ( @match@pawb.social ) English16•2 months ago
ooh fancy pants bigger than 2" dick mcgee over here
- CO5MO ✨ ( @c0smokram3r@midwest.social ) 16•2 months ago
Tape it back 😋
- eldavi ( @eldavi@lemmy.ml ) 5•2 months ago
SUPER supportive undies work too if you don’t want to go down that drag-queen-esque route.
men usually wore whitey tighties & jockstraps back in the day when booty shorts were normal for men and those are great at keeping all the bits where you want them to stay put.
- lud ( @lud@lemm.ee ) 11•2 months ago
Boxer briefs, trunks, briefs, thong, or jockstrap.
Pretty much any underwear except for boxer shorts.
- Rose Thorne(She/Her) ( @NakariLexfortaine@lemm.ee ) 10•2 months ago
Tucking, or if that’s uncomfortable, some people have success with underwear that’s just a size down from their regular.
- kittenzrulz123 ( @kittenzrulz123@lemmy.blahaj.zone ) 4•2 months ago
Bottom surgery, just become Transfem.
- EmptySlime ( @EmptySlime@lemmy.blahaj.zone ) English15•2 months ago
My dysphoria would never allow me to wear something like that. I can’t stand anything that reminds me that I’m built like a fridge and look like I’m cosplaying a Sasquatch with alopecia.
- Slovene ( @Slovene@feddit.nl ) 3•2 months ago
I think that’s dysmorphia?
- el_abuelo ( @el_abuelo@lemmy.ml ) 3•2 months ago
Both seem to work.
- EmptySlime ( @EmptySlime@lemmy.blahaj.zone ) English2•2 months ago
I personally don’t think so. It’s more a gender thing than a body looks thing. I’m nonbinary but I haven’t been able to pursue transition for health reasons. So I still look like a cis male. I’m 6’2" tall, my shoulders are wide enough that I legitimately have to walk sideways through some doors to keep from shoulder checking a wall. I’m just large and don’t like being reminded that most everyone that sees me just sees a man.
- Twitches ( @Twitches@lemm.ee ) 14•2 months ago
I just want to know why men can’t have stretchy comfy pants like women do.
- DontMakeMoreBabies ( @DontMakeMoreBabies@lemm.ee ) 14•2 months ago
I’d probably end up inadvertently offending somone? Tight pants and external genitalia are an interesting combination.
- tweeks ( @tweeks@feddit.nl ) 11•2 months ago
While tight shirts and external secondary sex distinctions are mostly not an issue.
- DontMakeMoreBabies ( @DontMakeMoreBabies@lemm.ee ) 3•2 months ago
I mean society seems to think so? Frankly also I just typically get uncomfortable with people peeking down at my crotch. I don’t generally wear tight pants for that reason because I’m not looking for that kind of attention.
- Sas [she/her] ( @Sas@beehaw.org ) 1•2 months ago
It’s just that the focus goes a lot more to nipples. If you wear a tight shirt with external secondaries you better wear a bra or be prepared to get started on or even get shit from people.
- tweeks ( @tweeks@feddit.nl ) 2•2 months ago
Yeah, we live in a weird world based around absurd prudish values. I do believe it’s increasingly less frowned upon in some European countries, especially Denmark in my experience.
- TwinTusks ( @TwinTusks@bitforged.space ) English3•2 months ago
I am fat, and I dislike tight clothing.
- Omega_Jimes ( @Omega_Jimes@lemmy.ca ) 13•2 months ago
No one wants my fatty hairy thighs peaking out from shorts like that.
- PotatoesFall ( @PotatoesFall@discuss.tchncs.de ) 12•2 months ago
How about my 2" covers you inseam?
sorry
- ValenThyme ( @ValenThyme@reddthat.com ) English9•2 months ago
https://a.co/d/09ZVcEdq the uratot ‘store’ has no https so sorry for the amazon link
- OldWoodFrame ( @OldWoodFrame@lemm.ee ) 6•2 months ago
There’s a clip somewhere of a gay guy looking direct to camera saying with that basically-clapping-between-words flamboyant energy:
“Straight men! The women you want to sleep with, want to see your thighs!”
I can never find it so the quote might not be perfect but it really stuck with me. I joked about it to my SO and she gave one of those moany approval noises meaning like “so true” so I guess the man was right.