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Fiat126 ( Fiat126@lemmy.blahaj.zone )  to 196@lemmy.blahaj.zone · 2 years ago

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Fiat126 ( Fiat126@lemmy.blahaj.zone )  to 196@lemmy.blahaj.zone · 2 years ago
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  • unexposedhazard ( unexposedhazard@discuss.tchncs.de ) 
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    I would if i had curves like dat. With my flat ass, that just looks like shit.

  • eldavi ( eldavi@lemmy.ml ) 
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    when i was very young, men would wear booty shorts and belly shirts like some women do now; publicly shirtless men was also more common; and, as an adult, i wish i could have appreciated it more than i did at the time.

    i hate that prudery has become so en vogue these days with the young.

  • lightnsfw ( lightnsfw@reddthat.com ) 
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    how do you keep it from dangling out the leg?

    • leviathan ( leviathan@programming.dev ) 
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      Short

    • Match!! ( match@pawb.social ) 
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      ooh fancy pants bigger than 2" dick mcgee over here

    • CO5MO ✨ ( c0smokram3r@midwest.social ) 
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      Tape it back 😋

      • eldavi ( eldavi@lemmy.ml ) 
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        SUPER supportive undies work too if you don’t want to go down that drag-queen-esque route.

        men usually wore whitey tighties & jockstraps back in the day when booty shorts were normal for men and those are great at keeping all the bits where you want them to stay put.

    • lud ( lud@lemm.ee ) 
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      Boxer briefs, trunks, briefs, thong, or jockstrap.

      Pretty much any underwear except for boxer shorts.

    • Rose Thorne(She/Her) ( NakariLexfortaine@lemm.ee ) 
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      Tucking, or if that’s uncomfortable, some people have success with underwear that’s just a size down from their regular.

    • kittenzrulz123 ( kittenzrulz123@lemmy.blahaj.zone ) 
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      Bottom surgery, just become Transfem.

    • Soundhole ( Soundhole@lemm.ee ) 
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      deleted by creator

  • EmptySlime ( EmptySlime@lemmy.blahaj.zone ) 
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    My dysphoria would never allow me to wear something like that. I can’t stand anything that reminds me that I’m built like a fridge and look like I’m cosplaying a Sasquatch with alopecia.

    • Slovene ( Slovene@feddit.nl ) 
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      I think that’s dysmorphia?

      • el_abuelo ( el_abuelo@lemmy.ml ) 
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        Both seem to work.

      • EmptySlime ( EmptySlime@lemmy.blahaj.zone ) 
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        I personally don’t think so. It’s more a gender thing than a body looks thing. I’m nonbinary but I haven’t been able to pursue transition for health reasons. So I still look like a cis male. I’m 6’2" tall, my shoulders are wide enough that I legitimately have to walk sideways through some doors to keep from shoulder checking a wall. I’m just large and don’t like being reminded that most everyone that sees me just sees a man.

  • Twitches ( Twitches@lemm.ee ) 
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    I just want to know why men can’t have stretchy comfy pants like women do.

    • DontMakeMoreBabies ( DontMakeMoreBabies@lemm.ee ) 
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      I’d probably end up inadvertently offending somone? Tight pants and external genitalia are an interesting combination.

      • tweeks ( tweeks@feddit.nl ) 
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        While tight shirts and external secondary sex distinctions are mostly not an issue.

        • DontMakeMoreBabies ( DontMakeMoreBabies@lemm.ee ) 
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          I mean society seems to think so? Frankly also I just typically get uncomfortable with people peeking down at my crotch. I don’t generally wear tight pants for that reason because I’m not looking for that kind of attention.

        • Sas [she/her] ( Sas@beehaw.org ) 
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          It’s just that the focus goes a lot more to nipples. If you wear a tight shirt with external secondaries you better wear a bra or be prepared to get started on or even get shit from people.

          • tweeks ( tweeks@feddit.nl ) 
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            Yeah, we live in a weird world based around absurd prudish values. I do believe it’s increasingly less frowned upon in some European countries, especially Denmark in my experience.

    • TwinTusks ( TwinTusks@bitforged.space ) 
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      I am fat, and I dislike tight clothing.

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  • Omega_Jimes ( Omega_Jimes@lemmy.ca ) 
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    No one wants my fatty hairy thighs peaking out from shorts like that.

  • PotatoesFall ( PotatoesFall@discuss.tchncs.de ) 
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    How about my 2" covers you inseam?

    sorry

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  • ImplyingImplications ( ImplyingImplications@lemmy.ca ) 
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    Booty booty booty booty booty booty shorts

  • OldWoodFrame ( OldWoodFrame@lemm.ee ) 
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    There’s a clip somewhere of a gay guy looking direct to camera saying with that basically-clapping-between-words flamboyant energy:

    “Straight men! The women you want to sleep with, want to see your thighs!”

    I can never find it so the quote might not be perfect but it really stuck with me. I joked about it to my SO and she gave one of those moany approval noises meaning like “so true” so I guess the man was right.

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