I want to know what turns on other cultures. In the USA (stereotypically), it’s huge breasts paired with a tiny waist and full rump; or the yogabody look. For men, it’s trim and hung. *
But what gets say Japanese women going? Or what do Korean women like? Or Nigerian women? Hitomi Tanaka once said Japanese porn was all about defiling. So that explains some of their unique scene types.
What do Chinese women find hot about men? About Western men? Are there any universals?
And I’ve set this all up from hetero male, but these dynamics apply to all types.
- yes there are always many who are turned on by the counter narrative, but let’s start with the big tendencies.
Is it hard for prostitutes/escorts to distinguish between work and private enjoyment? Do they cum well during work or is it more like a chore where its not feeling good?
Not an escort or prostitute, but the answer I’ve heard:
“It’s like any other job. Sometimes you like the work, sometimes you don’t mind, and sometimes you feel like quitting”
If a bi person has a “type,” is it consistent across genders? If you’re into short redhead women, are you into short redhead men?
No, or at least, not necessarily. Physically, I like females smaller than me and males bigger than me, and some other odd quirks that are definitely different between the sexes. Redheads and blondes drive me wild, for example, if they’re women, but turn me off in men. Give me black hair and dark eyes that frame a kissable male mouth…mm.
Mentally/personality is about the same for desire though.
I appreciate the answer!
I second what @imadethis said. My ‘type’ and even sexual preferences present differently between genders. To use your example, I find short redheaded women attractive, but generally am actually turned off by redheaded men in general.
The body types I look for in porn are not the same for men and women. And even when it’s femboy content, it’s something else again.
IRL, it’s a different story. It’s really certain characteristics that turn me on. Beautiful eyes or nerdy glasses, intelligent looks, a naughty smile, a nice ass, a few well-worn tattoos or piercings. I don’t know if it’s enough to define a type, but this is my type whatever the gender
Well hello! I never felt like a type before, lol.
My tastes are usually different. I like muscley men but not muscley women. I like androgynous men but not androgynous women. I like big bums on women but less so men. However, personality is really really important and trumps body type for me.
Are long-term master/slave dynamics common in the gay community?
Sissys: what pronouns work for you? I’m never sure. Is there even a right answer to that?
I suspect that femboys are mainly happy with male pronouns and I’m confident about how it works with trans folk.
what pronouns work for you?
The answer to that question, regardless of who you’re talking about is always the same. Just ask the person. There’s no overarching answer to this besides that because everyone is different.
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i encounter this when having a severe case of blue balls. feels like i need to go to the toilet, but i dont. also cumming doesnt immediatly help in this state, for me it gets a little worse and then better after a while.
but maybe its something totally different
The mens equivalent of the kegel muscles will engage you lower abdominal muscles when you strongly contract them. This usually only happens when the pelvic floor is pretty weak and/or the person isn’t very on tune with what their body is doing. It could also have been his sexual form and body movement during the act.
Regarding your last point, exercise in general tends to stimulate the bowels to move.
I’ve never had that happen. It does happen with blue balls on occasion. But ya know, I have hands and can take care of myself if need be, so don’t let guys use that as a pressure tactic.
I don’t know if this is inappropriate or not, but I always wondered if it’s possible to have a good LTR after having passionate sex on the first date?
Why are some men good at communicating while others view it as weakness and are more Stoic whilst interacting?
I think it’s very possible to have a good LTR after having passionate sex on the first date. I know people say to make the guy wait to weed out guys just looking to score.
And you have to blame the right and people like Andrew Tate for men not communicating or opening up. They tell men they are not supposed to.
I never waited for sex, my feeling is that I want a man who likes sex, not a man who is into “the chase”, and I value sexual chemistry, and feel the physical intimacy is the shallower level of intimacy. It certainly has not prevented me from finding good long term guys, no. I had one 20 year run, and have been with my husband for about 12 years now.
I guess I am way more interested in weeding out those guys who like the buildup better than sex, because they are the ones who lose interest after you have sex, or who think the first time is the best.
