This is a typical, lazy straw man.

“The left” are first of all not some kind of monolith. Obviously. Second of all, the notion that this supposed monolith are all “shouting down men” is nonsense, too.

Now, there IS absolutely validity to small pieces of these arguments that the “left” have not offered young men the kind of guidance they need, while the right have done a great job providing them with tantalizing bogeymen. But the argument sin this post are more of the same tired perpetuation of a false Left/Right culture war argument that is generally levied by people like Rogan, Peterson, Crowder, Carlson, etc. They tell these lost young men it’s some nefarious leftist plot to take away their manhood or whatever. The left’s failure is to not have a could counter to that. But creating “their own joe rogan” is nonsense because that’s just saying “they need their own version manipulating lies”.

What the “Left” needs to do is be able to able to not blame young men for falling for that nonsense, but to recognize there it is filling a wanted gap among that demographic to have certain archetypes.

Everyone coming up with reasons to blame the left for failing when the right, the rich and Russia teamed up in a country with unlimited anonymous election spending and no left wing parties.

I wanted to make a post with the same message on !offmychest , but this dude is saying what I wanted to. I’ll add this: if the left wants to win, among other things, they shouldn’t alienate 50% of their voters. It’s that simple.

This focus on “taking down the patriarchy”, making fun of “masculine energy”, calling everybody they disagree with a “nazi incel”, or constantly using the terms “mansplaining” or “toxic masculinity”, are not going to win you any points with young men. I’m quite left, but everytime I see a headline with those misandrist words, it’s a no-go. It simply won’t be read or if it is, it’ll get an eye-roll from me. From some, it has already driven them to the right. Me, it makes me vote for parties that have as little misandrist stuff as possible, because I know that parties with that rhetoric and identity-politics will get bogged down in useless, ideological squabbles with other parties.

Yes, equality is a major concern for me, but that goes for everybody, not just women. Considering original Mens Rights Activists as the enemy was one of the critical mistakes of the feminists and leftists. They were raising awareness about how unjust and unfair some parts of society were for men, and instead of connecting and saying “yeah, we feel you, you are also human and have issues”, the response was instead “you know nothing about suffering”, “you’re still privileged”, “nothing you ever experience can compare to what women experience”, “the movement is anti-women because it’s pro-man”, etc. For feminists and leftists talking about melting pots, compassion, and empathy, very little of that was felt back then, and it’s no surprise that many men who tried to voice their concerns and got shouted down by feminists and leftists instead sought “refuge” in a place where their concerns could be heard.

This is a battle between the haves and the have-nots. We shouldn’t be attacking other have-nots that want to be on the same side when they also voice concerns.

The gender wage gap? Buddy, we’re all fucking struggling out here. Tax the fucking rich. Tax their wealth, tax their financial transactions, tax the shit out of their inheritance, tax their exit to tax havens, tax their private jets, yachts, houses, everything, introduce staggered percentage fines, invest in education (schools, universities, after-work education), introduce a 4 day work week and 6 weeks of vacation days, house the homeless, introduce universal basic income, and so much more. The better everyone is educated, the more basics people don’t have to worry about, the happier and more advanced our civilisations will become. That won’t happen if we fight each other because another worker has more “privilege” than you.

Yes, doing so doesn’t work. Just makes them more alienated and having no healthy direction they tend to go in harmful ones.

Leftists (who are more aligned with centrists) shut out the working class, ie. the blue collar workers, the students, and the minimum wage workers, by pandering to the rich elite, and refusing to acknowledge their internal issues. Donald Trump and the right dominated the narrative, especially with religion on their side to fuel their objectives.

Its not about young men, its about “leftists” losing the working class.