Maybe it’s generational I don’t know. I’m a 47 year old dude I don’t need strangers validation to know I’m a good dad and frankly that level of assumed eavesdropping and then feeling a need to announce that regardless of it being a positive message is just, fucking weird and off-putting.
the weird part to me is writing such a long note and putting it on the car.
if it was delivered in person (and then there’s still a lot that could make it weird), or the note was just “hey man, couldn’t help but notice you seem to be a great parent, props from a fellow camper”, i’d be more comfortable with it.
Maybe it’s generational I don’t know. I’m a 47 year old dude I don’t need strangers validation to know I’m a good dad and frankly that level of assumed eavesdropping and then feeling a need to announce that regardless of it being a positive message is just, fucking weird and off-putting.
the weird part to me is writing such a long note and putting it on the car.
if it was delivered in person (and then there’s still a lot that could make it weird), or the note was just “hey man, couldn’t help but notice you seem to be a great parent, props from a fellow camper”, i’d be more comfortable with it.