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Lady Butterfly  ( CheeseToastie@lazysoci.al )  to [Moved to Piefed] Ask@lemm.eeEnglish · 2 years ago

What's a red flag in someone?

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What's a red flag in someone?

Lady Butterfly  ( CheeseToastie@lazysoci.al )  to [Moved to Piefed] Ask@lemm.eeEnglish · 2 years ago
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  • 🇰 🌀 🇱 🇦 🇳 🇦 🇰 🇮  ( Kolanaki@pawb.social ) 
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    They pour the milk before the cereal.

    • Lady Butterfly  ( CheeseToastie@lazysoci.al ) OP
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      I said red flag, not sign of a psychopath

    • GregorGizeh ( GregorGizeh@lemmy.zip ) 
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      Damn. Am I excused if i have only so much milk left and do it to not end up with dry ass cornflakes?

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        No, add small amounts of water to stretch it like a normal person.

      • Lady Butterfly  ( CheeseToastie@lazysoci.al ) OP
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        Then and only then. But it should pain you to do it.

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  • Secret Music ( Zero22xx@lemmy.blahaj.zone ) 
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    Red Flags (if I don’t blatantly show disgust, I’ll probably ghost you after observing this stuff):

    • Littering
    • Treating animals like objects
    • Treating staff in restaurants and shops etc. like trash
    • Being into manosphere shit or treating any podcaster / influencer / asshat with a microphone like they’re a guru
    • Interest in conspiracy theories and/or ‘free speech’ aka actions without consequences
    • Crying about wokeness or women or queer people

    Amber Flags (I’m a bit put off but I don’t want to judge a book by its cover so I’ll get to know you first):

    • Subscribing to a religion
    • Having no neck, a red face, short / no hair, tribal tattoos and walking like you’ve got an invisible water bottle under each arm
    • Being a constant ‘positivity’ person

    Edit: I feel like that’s a lot. Maybe I just hate everyone lol. Maybe I’m the red flag.

    • Lady Butterfly  ( CheeseToastie@lazysoci.al ) OP
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      Conspiracy theories is a good one, it can be a sign of serious MH conditions. Some theories border on clinical paranoia

      • Secret Music ( Zero22xx@lemmy.blahaj.zone ) 
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        Yeah and sadly the conspiracy theory scene seems to be completely taken over by bad actors with right wing agendas. That prey on these people who actually need help, rather than to be fed stories about George Soros and the deep state and microchips in vaccines etc.

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          Yep it’s really scary.

  • Lady Butterfly  ( CheeseToastie@lazysoci.al ) OP
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    An adult that often doesn’t accept when they’re wrong, glosses over it or shifts the blame. Yes, it’s part of growing up but past a certain age it’s a terrible sign in someone.

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    Being religious.

    It’s kinda sad to put it that way, but I’ve found almost universally that devoutly religious people are borderline incapable of actual critical thought

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    Fatal, depending on point and depth of penetration.

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      Good one dad@

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    They don’t listen to music at home.

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    Kisses their dog on the lips, but does not french the cat.

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    Their bathroom is destroyed. Usually a bad sign.

    A green flag is seeing a stuffed animal or two in their bed.

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      Does it count if my stuffed animals are in the living room?

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    I don’t specifically have any. I just trust my feelings and am open and honest as possible.

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