I’m in usually in trouble because I haven’t done something heh
I suppose sometimes when I find a bug I bang out the fix in dev right away and then PM is mad I didn’t go through the whole user story creation and prioritization process
I think that’s anxiety, but also yes
It’s both, difficulties with managing ADHD in an unsupportive/actively hostile world cause anxiety
Yeah, was about to say. Sounds like an anxiety disorder
Depression and Anxiety are comorbid with ADHD. The venn diagram is a circle. I am not sure 100% about how it works, I am told the childhood experience of a person with ADHD give us some level of trauma. ADHD is not actual about attention and fidgeting. It’s a deeply emotional disorder.
it probably has more to do with how parents, teachers treat kids with ADHD than ADHD itself
The average person with ADHD has received more than 20,000 negative statements before the age of 12 so… Yes.
If you were always told you are doing something wrong then naturally you will feel like you are always doing something wrong. It will become a core value/belief system by the time you are an adult.
https://www.mdedge.com/psychiatry/article/23971/pediatrics/dont-let-adhd-crush-childrens-self-esteem
It’s worse in you forties and female. I swear I am so stressed that I’m about to have a heart attack. Unfortunately, that almost certainly means an increased dose in meds is a very bad idea.
I always think everyone is mad at me. I wish I was normal and also 20 IQ points dumber for just a week so I could live for that one week.
Hello meee
I thought that was Imposter Syndrome
You don’t really have imposter syndrome, the people who do are struggling much harder.
My life at work is a bit paranoid at times lately. The fear of screwing up and losing my job goes through my head often. I question if I made the right call’s, or missed something. I’ve made my work much more time intensive. I cannot afford to lose the job I have, it’s not something where I could just go down the street and get a job at a competitive pay. I’d have to start at the bottom, while still owing as much as I do. Feels like I’m just waiting for the other shoe to drop.
Sometimes one of them is the case. I didn’t do anything wrong, but I forgot to do something expected of me. Fml
Nah bro, my mother in law reinforces that feeling on the daily, she won’t miss the opportunity to shit on me.
That’s something else.
pshaw, that’s easy to fix, just make sure you did something worth being in trouble for. It’ll keep your mind off it.
Yikes, is this true? Because I might need to get some test or something
Bruh.
What did he do doe?
Nothing. It was more of a “bruh this is exactly me”






