Never was much of a “ladies man” - guess that helps explain some small part of the reason why. Fortunately for me, I still managed to get some fool to fall for me anyway. Approaching three decades together now, so while I appreciate the tip I’m lucky enough not to have much need for it.
Nonetheless, thanks for being understanding of where I was coming from. I can’t say I understand how challenging it must be to be trans, but I wanted to convey my respect and appreciation for you going through all that and still having the courage you seem to. You are a far stronger person than I in that regard, and I apologize if what I said came off a bit crass - it was not my intention.
I can’t fully fathom what it’s like in your shoes, so I’m probably badly screwing up my attempt to be supportive. I suspect, however, that you’ve dealt with such awkwardness enough before to already know the well-meaning intentions behind it all. As such, I’m gonna shut my mouth & leave it at that.
i hope you two are happy together, love is a wonderful thing. youre doing great dont worry, I just mention what I did because a lot of guys seem to think we wear makeup to hide who we are or because we are insecure when thats usually pretty far from the case! personally I pretty up because its a way to express myself and stand out :)
as a community were happy to accept and educate cis allies, your support means more now than ever and it puts a smile on my face hearing you express that.
appreciated! though as a tip from a lady, dont go telling that to folks, we wear makeup for ourselves first and foremost :)
Never was much of a “ladies man” - guess that helps explain some small part of the reason why. Fortunately for me, I still managed to get some fool to fall for me anyway. Approaching three decades together now, so while I appreciate the tip I’m lucky enough not to have much need for it.
Nonetheless, thanks for being understanding of where I was coming from. I can’t say I understand how challenging it must be to be trans, but I wanted to convey my respect and appreciation for you going through all that and still having the courage you seem to. You are a far stronger person than I in that regard, and I apologize if what I said came off a bit crass - it was not my intention.
I can’t fully fathom what it’s like in your shoes, so I’m probably badly screwing up my attempt to be supportive. I suspect, however, that you’ve dealt with such awkwardness enough before to already know the well-meaning intentions behind it all. As such, I’m gonna shut my mouth & leave it at that.
Take care.
i hope you two are happy together, love is a wonderful thing. youre doing great dont worry, I just mention what I did because a lot of guys seem to think we wear makeup to hide who we are or because we are insecure when thats usually pretty far from the case! personally I pretty up because its a way to express myself and stand out :)
as a community were happy to accept and educate cis allies, your support means more now than ever and it puts a smile on my face hearing you express that.
have a good one 🩷
This interaction just warmed my soul so deeply. Bravo to both of you!!
You are a good human. Thank you. Hugs!!