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Stamets ( Stamets@lemmy.dbzer0.com )  to ADHD memes@lemmy.dbzer0.comEnglish · 7 months ago

Oh god just let me finish it for you, fuck

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Oh god just let me finish it for you, fuck

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Stamets ( Stamets@lemmy.dbzer0.com )  to ADHD memes@lemmy.dbzer0.comEnglish · 7 months ago
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  • Sundray ( sundray@lemmus.org ) 
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    Trying to fast forward dialog in real life:

  • menas ( menas@lemmy.wtf ) 
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    An ADHD friends don’t let me finish. 2 time on 3 is wrong about what I was about to tell

    • NottaLottaOcelot ( NottaLottaOcelot@lemmy.ca ) 
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      Yeah I definitely have these tendencies and had to really work to stop interrupting. Sometimes the end is what I expected, and sometimes it’s quite a surprise. I can totally see why it would annoy someone to have a person finish their sentence, and incorrectly at that.

      I do feel that my social interactions are much improved as I’ve gotten better with impulse control

      • xorollo ( xorollo@leminal.space ) 
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        Its like talking to a stupid AI. (When someone finishes my sentence but incorrectly) So frustrating. And the other thing that happens is I’m so astounded at the interruption I forget what I was getting at. My brain does not prioritize speed (I’m slow to process/respond sometimes) so I just can’t even do these kinds of conversations. I’m giving up, my contribution is clearly not needed for your conversation with yourself (I don’t mean YOU, I mean the theoretical person)

        Anyway, ty for working on improving it, I know it’s an effort!

    • boonhet ( boonhet@sopuli.xyz ) 
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      Well yeah but once I’ve made up my mind on the rest of your sentence, it’s not like I’m going to process your version in my head anyway

  • Gerudo ( Gerudo@lemmy.zip ) 
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    Then my brain turns off, thinking of something else, then I miss what they were actually trying to say, then they start over.

    FUUUUUUUCK

  • Septimaeus ( Septimaeus@infosec.pub ) 
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  • Senal ( Senal@programming.dev ) 
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    1000004494

  • Winter_Oven ( Winter_Oven@piefed.social ) 
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    So how does one stop the “understanding”? I want my brain to listen, not auto-complete then give up on listening to the rest.

  • [deleted] ( snooggums@piefed.world ) 
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    If their sentence takes more than a few seconds then they are most likely rambling on about tangential and irrelevant stuff instead of getting to the point. That is so painful.

    • Montagge ( Montagge@lemmy.zip ) 
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      If their sentence takes more than a few

      Everything past that is just rambling about tangential and irrelevant stuff. You should just get to the point.

      • [deleted] ( snooggums@piefed.world ) 
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        Now you are getting it!

        • Honytawk ( Honytawk@discuss.tchncs.de ) 
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          TLDR

    • NigelFrobisher ( NigelFrobisher@aussie.zone ) 
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      Yeah, just say it.

  • nubproru ( nubproru@lemmy.blahaj.zone ) 
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    I spend to much time with fellow neurodivergent people, so now i confuse neurotypicals when i don’t finish my sentences or start talking in keywords, to bring my point across without wasting time.

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  • reallykindasorta ( reallykindasorta@slrpnk.net ) 
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    I like to think that sentence finishing has something to do with brain synchronization

  • quediuspayu ( quediuspayu@lemmy.dbzer0.com ) 
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    Good, next time don’t pretend not understand me if I use slightly wrong terminology.

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