This summer, my fiancée and I are getting married! I’ve been gone for a long time and I definitely missed all my favourite lesbians

    • dandelion ( dandelion@lemmy.blahaj.zone ) 
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      7 months ago

      if you’re in a decent enough city, there are more and more non-alcoholic options these days … still, I feel you.

      You really have to find the right people and get a foot into the local sapphic community - I don’t think it’s typical for those spaces to be open to the public. There aren’t a lot of designated sapphic bars, for example.

  • dandelion ( dandelion@lemmy.blahaj.zone ) 
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    7 months ago

    hi!

    congrats on the proposal 🥳 Are you going to have a big wedding?

    I’m doing OK - went on a date night the other night with my partner and I wore a busty outfit that showed my midriff, and the waitress asked what we were so “dressed up” for, if there was a special event, and my partner awkwardly admitted we were on a date together and it was our first time at the restaurant. The waitress, who was young and wearing a cross necklace, seemed to suddenly get all nervous and hoped she wasn’t going to screw anything up for us, lol. 🙈 🫠

    I guess it’s nice when the Christians are worried about being misconstrued as hateful and want to please, rather than getting the cold response I was more used to in the Southern US.