yea but some women say “men are trash” on social media and that’s just as bad 😢 /s
I got called a misandrist for saying “not all men, but too damn many”. This has made me doubt claims of misandry. While I’m sure it exists, I’m no longer sure of it’s previlince.
Some get their feelings hurt, some die. Close enough. /s
Women suck!
Oh shit is that not ok to say? Because I was under the impression that grouping a bunch of people together and blaming all of them for shit is what racists do, and those guys are all right!
Damn right. And adult women rarely murder adult men… the murder rate is wildly disproportionate.
One group is fighting for their freedom but members of the other group complain when they succeed.
Belle Hicks said it right, though, feminism is for everyone. A system that fucks over one group isn’t going to treat anyone else fairly, either. More men should be fighting on our side, as much for themselves as for us.
Lowkey, I don’t view it as men vs. women at all. It’s really just the bourgeoisie pitting us against each other by playing favourites.
tl;dr: Workers of the world, unite!
Edit: I made an additional statement, which was sexist against men. I have removed it. My appologies.
Conditioning is really powerful. I hear your anger, but please don’t make statements like “most men are disgusting monsters” again here
My appologies. I shan’t do it again.
It’s fine we all post without thinking sometimes 😊
Yeah… I’m pretty guilty of that. Posting/commenting on the Threadiverse is more fun than sleeping :3
Posting without thinking is a time-honored internet tradition
That is true, that is true.
Should I edit/censor my comment?
Thats very kind and would be appreciated
It’s the least I can do.
❤️ 💙 💜
I’m all for a safe space for women but this reeks of sexism. Except the good ones, is a common trope among bigots who want to generalize without sounding like bigots.
I think perhaps my opinions have shifted to fit in with my sisters and mother. They say things like that they hate all men, and say “it’s not personal” to my dad and brother-in-law.
I appologise for being sexist. I shall attempt to course-correct.
Thanks for listening and owning up. I know it’s hard to break a habit when casual sexism becomes your norm.
I honestly have a tendency to avoid taking responsibility and acknowledging when I’m wrong, but I’m trying to do better. Feel free to correct/confront me in the future.
I appreciate it. As someone who fought some hard rejection sensitivity issues, it feels way better to own up than to double down when I know I’m wrong.
Oh. I looked it up, and that sounds like me. I wonder if it’s connected to my social anxiety.
Also, yeah, owning up does feel better than digging my heels in.
I learned it’s part of ADHD, which I have. Naming it has helped me acknowledge when it’s happening. Since anxiety goes hand in hand with conditions like ADHD, it might be related.
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You sound very unhappy about being a man. You don’t have to be one if you don’t want to. I didn’t want to, and so now I’m not.
So you know the rules. You know your posting here is against the rules. And you decided to post here anyway to whine about the rules and about how your posting here is against them, daring us, in effect, to delete your post.
And somehow this makes you a good person.
You then proceed to make your masculine self the main character in a women’s group, whining about your “genital mutilation”.
And somehow this makes you a good person and those who want to have a space to themselves bad.
Yes, you’re very obviously an “ally”.
You utter fucking berk.
You’re literally arguing with no one.
I explained it to my sons when they were teens as such: just because in the past men were privililged to have more of the well paying employment than women and some males (rich, white, educated) had the best of those jobs, doesn’t mean that today’s men are unfairly disadvantaged when other men (of colour) and women (all) are also able to compete for those jobs. Blaming women and immigrants because you now have to compete with everyone else for employment isn’t their fault, it is the fault of business and governments who have allowed the wealth imbalance that makes working for a living wage unobtainable for a growing portion of the population. The solution isn’t being anti any group of working people. The solution is taking back control from the corporations and the 1%.
Zero sum jags think my gain is their loss.
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First off, women did not make that decision. It was the decision of men to bar young men from leaving Ukraine, so this is not relevant to the discussion. If you want to complain about anyone for this, complain about the men in power; it doesn’t make sense to blame women for this.
Second off, you should really read the rules of the community here. The kind of hateful false equivalence you’ve shown indicates to me that you are more than likely a man. The very first rule of this community is that it is women only (and nonbinary folks that feel it is appropriate for them to participate in a women’s space). So please pack up and go elsewhere, as this is meant to be a safe space for women without the intervention of men.
Please read the rules of the group you’re responding to. Here. Let me help you with that:
Why not?
???
Why not what?
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… read the rules, oh my god
