I started bartending at sports events when I was 18. The tips were glorious, the men were not. So many life lessons learned in a very short amount of time.
Dudes fucking do that?!?
I used to be a bartender (I’m a cis-man), and I would get upset when a customer touched my forearm (multiple genders did this)
What the fuck is wrong with people
hey you should read the rules here
I apologize, I have a bad habit of not reading the rules (or noticing which sub I’m in, I came in from the ‘All’ feed).
I’ve just now read the rules, and it definitely says that only women can post, but it was less clear about if men would be welcome to comment (based on your comment it seems like maybe we’re not? [I have ASD, so I often need things spelled out for me explicitly, I’m not trying to be pedantic])
I’m sorry if I’m intruding, that was not my intention. If this is a safe space I’ll gladly see myself out.
men are not allowed to comment no
It’s fine no issue. Rule is no cis men, only women, non binary and trans can post or comment. We’re strict about it ❤️
Hey friend! Thanks for taking our point seriously. We are trans inclusive so please don’t comment again have a good weekend ❤️
Upon reflecting I recognize now what the bad thing I said was.
To be clear, I’m just an idiot and don’t think carefully enough about what I’m saying or typing until it’s already out of my head.
I wasn’t trying to be discriminatory or exclusionary. I’m sorry everyone. I won’t bother you again.
I didn’t read your comment badly mate… i read it as taking the meme seriously. It was obviously new information that shocked you, you took it seriously and had supportive anger on our behalf. Plus you’re politely leaving without argument cos you realised we don’t allow cis men. There’s no issue at all, it’s fine, and hope you have a lovely weekend 🥰
Yep. Even if it’s 1 in a 1000, that’s still once or more per week at a busy bar. Our bouncers closed their night when us bartenders were all safely to our cars.
C. She is just a nice person
I sincerely didn’t get it at first because most of the area of the sign in white
This.
Sign should be light blue or something.
I dunno, there’s a lot of white on that sign, I liked my odds… /s
Do you know where you’re commenting?
Sorry I did not notice the community until right now, ill jot respond back after this to leave you this space. I was just trying to empathize with women by satirising how the type of man would view the sign that it was created for.
When having the rules pointed out to you after you’ve broken them, it is not an invitation to break the rules again so you can explain why you’re breaking the rules. Again.
