I hate giving advice on this because you shouldn’t have to do any of it, but that’s the world we live in 🤷♀️
My answer depends on the source.
strangers at work (customers): fake wedding ring, like a plain band. This depends on your age (less believable for teens) and if your job allows jewelry.
strangers in public: fake wedding ring, headphones (sometimes I’d have the sound off if I was concerned for my safety but it’s a good “don’t talk to me” sign). Acting annoyed if they try and talk to you anyways. Saying things like, “Sorry, I’d rather be left alone thanks.” Or something like that. Physically moving if they say shit like, “you don’t want to chat?” Etc.
coworkers: avoid chatting 1-on-1 unless about work, ask coworkers for advice if you feel you can trust them. They might be able to give a little bit of a hint to the guy.
I always went to bars/clubs in big groups and never while single and looking to meet people so no real advice there except I didn’t make eye contact with folks or give anything more than very brief answers if someone talked to me, and immediately walked away after answering.
I think the biggest hurdle is getting over hurting feelings. You didn’t invite the person to give you attention, they choose to do it and expect a positive reception, based on what??? It’s not an act of care or a sign of how much they like you if they are persistent, it’s disrespectful.
I hate giving advice on this because you shouldn’t have to do any of it, but that’s the world we live in 🤷♀️
My answer depends on the source.
I always went to bars/clubs in big groups and never while single and looking to meet people so no real advice there except I didn’t make eye contact with folks or give anything more than very brief answers if someone talked to me, and immediately walked away after answering.
I think the biggest hurdle is getting over hurting feelings. You didn’t invite the person to give you attention, they choose to do it and expect a positive reception, based on what??? It’s not an act of care or a sign of how much they like you if they are persistent, it’s disrespectful.
Good luck!