Terms like “transgender” [T], trans-masculine [TM] or trans-feminine [TF] are equally as informative but not unpleasant and dysphoric as “male-to-female” and “female-to-male”, which by many people are and will be viewed negatively.
Since posting and sexting is supposed to be about about fun and pleasure, I suggest changing the current rules to make space more inviting and accepting for different people. (:
Due to the mod request, I am personally fine with changing my gender tags ([F] (trans)) to [NB] for the time being and abstain from further posting as I’m principally opposed to refering to myself as “male to female” instead of “trans-feminine” or simply “transgender woman”. There is no need to introduce each post with implication of being “half a man” or “formerly a man” and the like.
It’s not that I am deeply offended or pretentious, but rather not taking pleasure from being grouped together with men [M] whenever I want to post something sexy.
P.S. I was otherwise very happy with my experience and enjoyed all the posts, comments and interactions (; <3
Cheers
That’s a valid point, to be candid I am not cis myself, but I am new to being trans, and I’m still learning. I just recently found out those terms were potentially transphobic, apologies, I was told by someone that those were the proper terms. The flairs have been changed.
@87vwjetta@fedinsfw.app is this what you were referring to in the post? If you ever have an issue like this, please bring it up and the admin team will address it