As title says ! We do post as amateur, for the thrill of exposing ourselves in controlled conditions in a positive minded place, and for the great interaction we get afterwards in comments and DMs :)

But we’re curious to the reasons other might be doing it, from sellers advertising to other we might not even have considered !

And as a subsidiary, people who do not post, would you like to someday ? What are your hold up(s) ?

Thank you in advance for all your answers !

  • LemonMan ( LemonMan@fedinsfw.app ) English
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    28 days ago

    I’m a solo guy so pretty much nobody cares about my posts, but I do it anyway for the fun of it. I did once have a girl DM me and ask me for more pics then she sent me a couple back of her fingering herself over them, so that was nice & made me feel appreciated.

  • BlueWindsBreeze ( BlueWindsBreeze@fedinsfw.app ) English
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    15 days ago

    I’m not a model and never will be (many years and a different face too late for that) but I feel sexy when people like and comment on my stuff. I get off to people getting off to me.

    I’m not here to make money, but prostitution is one of my kinks, so getting tips plays into that very heavily. I promise $5 makes no difference to a salaried professional financially - but I sure do cum harder thinking about being an (e-)whore.

    tl;dr - I like the attention, it is nice to be appreciated and helps with some of my own insecurities.

  • solar ( solar@fedinsfw.app ) English
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    29 days ago

    I don’t post myself. I have done so in the past on other sites, did a lot of tributing. But I was very single back then and just needed sexual attention in some way (worked very well honestly). Since I’ve stopped being single I wasn’t interested in it as much. I might go back to posting myself in the future but would have to sort that out with my partner first

  • 87vwjetta ( 87vwjetta@fedinsfw.app ) English
    1·
    29 days ago

    This is the first place where I don’t post out of perceived risks. I consider myself an exhibitionist and I love sharing myself in all sorts of naked activities. The person running this place is a scraper and encouraged scrapers on the matrix chat for this place. I am transgender and the owner has transphobic tags and rigidly enforces them on trans people. Also, blocking on Lemmy doesnt actually block someone. I have watched this instance since it began and it has not gotten better, so it still reads as unsafe to me.

    • lemmyposter212 ( lemmyposter212@fedinsfw.app ) English
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      16 days ago

      Woah woah woah, just seeing this, are you talking about me? I feel as though some wires have been crossed here, I am the owner of the site fedinsfw.app is that the site you’re referring to? I don’t scrape anything, where did you get that idea? Where did I encourage scrapers in matrix? Also I am not at all transphobic, I’m not cis, what tags are you talking about? Enforced where? I am genuinely open to constructive criticism, if something is transphobic it’s only because I’m out of the loop, please let me know

      • lemmyposter212 ( lemmyposter212@fedinsfw.app ) English
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        8 days ago

        ok, I see what’s happening here.

        1. that is not me, that is one of the other admins of the site, and it just seems like he didn’t know the bad rep scrapers get at the time, I don’t even know if I had made him an admin at the time
          edit: also important to mention here: this was right around the time lemmynsfw was just getting back up as an archive, so people were trying to find ways to download their content off of the old site.
        2. we don’t really like scrapers either, they really increase the overhead of the site, I’m pretty sure we’ve made our best attempts to block scrapers or at the least rate limit them.
        • that being said, the nature of lemmy and piefed’s protocols are such that scrapers have a VERY easy time just getting whatever they want. They could access any instance that federates with ours that doesn’t limit scrapers and scrape communities from our site. So it’s definitely hard to control.

        Also I tagged you in a post about what I think you were referring to as far as transphobic tags, we enforce tags on gonewild for organization’s sake, I wasn’t aware the terminology in the tags was transphobic, as I said in my comment there, I was told it was the proper terminology, it’s been brought to our attention and we’ve changed the flairs, and we are actively looking into ways to change the titles of posts to retroactively not have transphobic gender tags.

        As I have said many times on many posts and in matrix, if you have an issue with something on the site PLEASE take it up with the admins in a dm or in matrix. We are more than happy to listen.

  • DjangoFett ( DjangoFett@lemmy.zip ) English
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    29 days ago

    I am curious about posting, but I am so… The opposite of vain without thinking I’m ugly. I have no real opinion of my own looks.

    The other side of why I don’t post things is that I don’t want to see more penis out there as i prefer the ladies, so why put it out there myself?

    Then there’s the fact that my wife would probably have some very pointed opinions on it, and while I have seen that she would almost certainly be well-received if she shared such things I also know she simply wouldn’t because she has zero confidence in her body.

    If there’s any interest in a skinny-ish dad bod then maybe I’ll give it real thought.

  • wizard ( wizard@fedinsfw.app ) English
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    29 days ago

    There are two reasons I don’t post publicly, one is for my privacy as this whole FediNSFW world is unknown to my IRL people. The other is that I don’t feel like it would draw much interest. I have posted in the past in different sites for a rating and I didn’t get any comments at all. I have done some tributes and gotten good feedback, though.