I like being able to find pornography that explores the boundaries of the format, flashy editing style, the video/audio being paced for masturbating to a particular rhythm instead of what makes sense for two people “realistically” having sex. And there’s a lot of things that people can learn about their own sexuality through masturbation that I want to know what other people have found.
The problem I have is that certain themes are just utterly unavoidable: feminization, shame, chastity, “you dont deserve pussy”, “you need turn off your brain and submit to the alpha”. I can get into feminization a little bit because it can be an exploration of how to enjoy your own body, but most of these themes I am really not into in the slightest. I like masturbating all the time and I do it because I feel like it makes my life better not because I’m addicted to it or don’t have other options (would still be nice to have easier access to other options).
I actually take offense to being told that “you’re not worthy of the real thing” and “you need to submit to your betters”. And thats a really big theme for way too much of these this stuff.
to put this another way, I want to be jacking off to something from someone who seems to be getting off at the idea of me getting off. I’m a lot less interested in getting off to somebody who seems there to profit off of people being lonely
hypnotube is pretty much exactly what I’m complaining about. I’ve looked at that site have been multiple instances where I’m watching a video from there that has a thumbnail and title that says it’s going to be affirming then halfway through the video starts insulting me.