For me, since I’ve been 100% remote for 8 years now, I can live pretty much anywhere I want, as long as there’s decent Internet. As my kids all grew up and moved out to live their own lives, I asked myself where I really wanted to live. One was Ecuador, specifically because of the tropical climate combined with high altitude rain forests. The other was the PNW. My partner and I came up to Eugene, OR and did a massive three day tour of Oregon and southern Washington looking for a place to live and finally settled on Eugene, at least to start. Now we live in northern Salem, OR and we absolutely love it here. The climate (bring on the rain!), the overall feeling of the people, the forests and beaches, just all of it really. To be fair, there are definitely still a number of hateful angry people who live in rural areas, which can be problematic, but overall it’s lovely.

What made you move?

  • Moved here this year after too many years of feeling unsafe being openly gay in public living in the midwest. I was even in a medium sized city but there are just too many small minded backwards people there, my partner and I didn’t even feel safe holding hands in public. Now we’re in the PNW and feel like we can just be normal without constantly worrying that someone will see us “looking gay in public” and react with hostility.

  • I moved to Oregon from the E Coast in 2008 to attend University and also because of the climate (physical and political). I absolutely loved the gloomy Eugene winters, and the cool summers. Lately, however, it hasn’t been the same. For the last three years I was forced to move to Southern Oregon because of work, and loathe the 100+F degree summers (April though October) and the MAGA people. Still, I would never live anywhere else than the PNW. Hopefully soon I can move back to Eugene.

  • I moved out here in 2013. The person I was with at the time wanted to get out of the Midwest, and it was between Portland and NYC. I felt that Portland was more my speed, and 10 years and a few relationships later, I’m still stoked with my choice! Making meaningful, long term friendships has been a challenge for this introvert, but I’m happy to be here while I figure that out!

  • was born in aberdeen wa but my folks moved when I was 2 weeks old back in '79, moved back to WA in 2004 - some guys I grew up with lived here so I came to visit and ended up living in WA again.

    been thinking about leaving soon though, the taxes, raising rent, and rampant crime have made me feel less than welcome recently. last year or so I’ve been building an RV, using a 1987 Ford Grumman (Kabmaster) base vehicle, go do the vanlfe thing away from cities - drive the path less traveled, etc. one lesson of the pandemic is that remote work is possible anywhere you can get an internet connection, and I do IT work so… time to gtfo. thinking SD or NV to get residency/plates, then live on the road.

    there are some really beautiful places in the PNW but you have to have a fair bit of money to live here.

  • Originally from Texas, came up here for school over a decade ago and found the weather, people, and ease of queer existence agreed with me a lot more than Texas did! I do miss the landscape and culture of the southwest but I love the landscape and culture here too.

  • I had an interview in Seattle in January 1991. When I arrived, it was sunny, the temperature was around 50°F, the mountains were amazing, and it was nothing like where I had just come from (Minneapolis). I got offered the job, so my long-term partner (at the time) and I moved to Seattle in March 1991. I’ve lived in the PNW ever since.