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Martineski ( Martineski@lemmy.dbzer0.com )  to ADHD memes@lemmy.dbzer0.comEnglish · 3 years ago

Helping others vs. helping yourself

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Helping others vs. helping yourself

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Martineski ( Martineski@lemmy.dbzer0.com )  to ADHD memes@lemmy.dbzer0.comEnglish · 3 years ago
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  • tacosanonymous ( tacosanonymous@lemm.ee ) 
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    I don’t know what I ever did to you to be called out like this.

    • Martineski ( Martineski@lemmy.dbzer0.com ) OP
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      It’s your fault for having ADHD! 👿

      • kittenbridgeasteroid ( kittenbridgeasteroid@discuss.tchncs.de ) 
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        I blame my parents.

        • goo ( goo@lemm.ee ) 
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          We all do.

      • IDe ( IDe@sopuli.xyz ) 
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        Removed by mod

  • denaggels ( denaggels@feddit.de ) 
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    Sometimes it helps to think of yourself as a friend you are helping out.

  • Anamana ( Anamana@feddit.de ) 
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    With this site I feel it’s like… aren’t these problems everyone suffers from? Or am I just projecting my potential fear of having a condition 😅

    • Swedneck ( Swedneck@discuss.tchncs.de ) 
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      As has been said previously to this question: most people likely have issues like this from time to time, what makes it problematic is having them almost constantly and to such a degree that it’s crippling.

      Everyone coughs from time to time, but if you have a chronic cough that’s so bad that you cough up blood every time, that’s not normal and you need to see a doctor.

      • Holzkohlen ( Holzkohlen@feddit.de ) 
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        See mom, I told you I am fine!

    • Phen ( Phen@lemmy.eco.br ) 
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      Kinda. One post I like to quote is the one that says that everybody pees too, but if you do it 30 times in an hour you need a doctor. ADHD is relatable to everyone because everybody deals with our problems to some extent, just in much more manageable doses.

    • Piers ( Piers@beehaw.org ) 
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      If everyone had this particular issue the world would be very different I think.

      • Anamana ( Anamana@feddit.de ) 
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        You’re probably right

    • Martineski ( Martineski@lemmy.dbzer0.com ) OP
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      https://lemmy.dbzer0.com/post/4051762

      • Anamana ( Anamana@feddit.de ) 
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        Just pondering on my own misery, cause I can relate is all. Wasn’t trying to put OP down for feeling it. I’ll try to be more careful with the wording next time thx

        • towerful ( towerful@programming.dev ) 
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          I figure I have ADHD or some flavour. Mentioned it to my family, my sister went “huh” and got diagnosed.
          Im still waiting

        • Martineski ( Martineski@lemmy.dbzer0.com ) OP
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          Oh, I didn’t share this to say that I’m going to ban you. I just thought that this post would answer your question. I made a lot of comments today and I was too tired to bother with explaining things.

          • Anamana ( Anamana@feddit.de ) 
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            Ah aight haha, all good then

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      • Laticauda ( Laticauda@lemmy.ca ) 
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        That is a bad example because many women are actively in pain with cramps and have seen a doctor about it but have been told they’re just unlucky.

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      • Anamana ( Anamana@feddit.de ) 
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        Yeah that kinda makes me worried about myself tho lol

  • Lotsen ( Lotsen@lemmy.dbzer0.com ) 
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    Why is this relateble

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