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imaginelizard ( imaginelizard@monyet.cc ) M to Café@monyet.cc · 3 years ago

/c/café daily chat thread for 1 July 2023

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/c/café daily chat thread for 1 July 2023

imaginelizard ( imaginelizard@monyet.cc ) M to Café@monyet.cc · 3 years ago
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  • frieslovingvampire ( frieslovingvampire@monyet.cc ) 
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    Happy July! Sad to hear most 3rd party apps are already down. But, i had a lot of fun last two days? Well, even prior to that. Had my person over to meet the family and the cats. My anxious cat who’s always anxious and scared of strangers warmed up to him and let my person pet his back. So cute 🥺🥺

    • 💤💤💤 ( sleepy@monyet.cc ) 
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    • Annoyed_🦀  ( Annoyed_Crabby@monyet.cc ) 
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      Huhu, already meet parent dy

  • SheenTStars ( SheenTStars@monyet.cc ) 
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    Going to be a stressful and depressing day. Wish me luck.

    • Naomikho ( Naomikho@monyet.cc ) 
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      💪stay strong

    • a_HerculePoirot_fan ( a_HerculePoirot_fan@monyet.cc ) 
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      Uhh? Good luck bb! Hugsss

    • blue_tea_latte ( blue_tea_latte@monyet.cc ) 
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      good luck!!

    • Annoyed_🦀  ( Annoyed_Crabby@monyet.cc ) 
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      Good luck!

  • katabana ( katabana@monyet.cc ) 
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    3 years ago

    Just found out that my dobi guy is from kelantan. He’s a chinese so of course i asked him about all those burning questions.

    From what i understood, chinese mostly mingle together and have their own community, where everything haram is available there (when the state allowed it).

    Yes many chinese supported pas. Didnt ask why. Yet.

    Yes the water sucks. The teh tarik free flow is true and not exxagerated.

    Apparently most tauke in kelantan are chinese. He deacribed the situation like indonesia, where majority of wealth is hold by local chinese.

    Apparently non kelantanese cannot have permanent land deed there. Cn only rent about 60+ years.

    Apparently kelantanese cinese damn rich. Authority doesnt check their wealth. They keep lots of cash and use it to avoid tax. Even went as far as using cash only to buy and build houses. Not sure how that works because we will get targeted immediately if we add those properties under our name but that’s what he said.

    Would kepochi more but customer came.

    • Annoyed_🦀  ( Annoyed_Crabby@monyet.cc ) 
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      hmm, sounds to me they just benefits from PAS, not in the development way but easier to line their pocket, or maybe they just like slower pace.

  • UltimateUsermaim ( UltimateUsermaim@monyet.cc ) 
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    Few days ago, I watched this video on YouTube of people secretly learning their enthic language to suprise their parents. They would find tutors online. I’m thinking to myself. These people are lucky that their enthicity is common enough that there is a tutor online

    I don’t have that privilege. when I Google my enthic language. It’s a fkin Wikipedia page and other pages of that nature. An archival piece

    Not that I don’t try. The few times I try with my parents. My mom is pretty receptive of it. My dad on the other hand…he made fun of me when I did it. I think he sees it like how a mexican guy speaks in perfect mexican but when it comes to certain words, they’ll say it in perfect American accent. A Mishmash of perfect mexican with perfect American. That’s how I sound like to him maybe. I hope that analogy make sense. Anyway, yeah that made me not wanting to learn it more and more.

    Maybe it’s like pandas, just let it die. Not worth saving just because they look cool. Too much hassle not enough utility.

    • Annoyed_🦀  ( Annoyed_Crabby@monyet.cc ) 
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      Yeah, it’s an ass move for making fun other’s attempt at learning something, especially when they’re still kids. I got made fun of from my cousin for speaking kinda terrible cantonese and english when i was a kid, that sour the deal so much i just quit learning both, all that just so i can communicate with him.

      • cendawanita ( cendawanita@monyet.cc ) 
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        Sympathies from the loghat negeri failure mode gang. Pretty much why I stopped bothering to speak proper kelantanese.

  • 2000Parsecs ( 2000Parsecs@monyet.cc ) 
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    I have arrived, with despair.

    • doot ( doot@monyet.cc ) 
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      😢

      • YourClarke ( YourClarke@monyet.cc ) 
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        Where’s your dickle

        • Annoyed_🦀  ( Annoyed_Crabby@monyet.cc ) 
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          Met the sickle

    • Naomikho ( Naomikho@monyet.cc ) 
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      patpat

  • doot ( doot@monyet.cc ) 
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    gg apollo

  • monkeyballnutty ( monkeyballnutty@monyet.cc ) 
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    make an account here so can chat with others. lol

    • Annoyed_🦀  ( Annoyed_Crabby@monyet.cc ) 
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      Hi 👀

      • monkeyballnutty ( monkeyballnutty@monyet.cc ) 
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        wait … you are… annoyed crabby? i didn’t know can use emoji as username lol

        • Annoyed_🦀  ( Annoyed_Crabby@monyet.cc ) 
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          Haha, no lah, you can customise your username after creating an account, can change it in your profile

          Also i think the display picture can even be animated, i think lah 🙈

  • weecious ( weecious@monyet.cc ) 
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    burp

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      • weecious ( weecious@monyet.cc ) 
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        A shame, it’s good. If it’s a bit drier, it would be perfect.

    • Annoyed_🦀  ( Annoyed_Crabby@monyet.cc ) 
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      Mmm so many siham 🤤

      • UltimateUsermaim ( UltimateUsermaim@monyet.cc ) 
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        What’s siham? Cockles?

        • Annoyed_🦀  ( Annoyed_Crabby@monyet.cc ) 
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          Yup, cockles

    • blue_tea_latte ( blue_tea_latte@monyet.cc ) 
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      mee goreng siham ke siham goreng mee?

      • Annoyed_🦀  ( Annoyed_Crabby@monyet.cc ) 
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        Mee goreng bersiham

        • blue_tea_latte ( blue_tea_latte@monyet.cc ) 
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          more like siham goreng bermi

      • ruk_n_rul ( ruk_n_rul@monyet.cc ) 
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        siham goreng mee

        “So kau kata siham goreng mi ni?”

      • weecious ( weecious@monyet.cc ) 
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        Ya

    • Yong ( yong1996@monyet.cc ) 
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      too much -0-

      • weecious ( weecious@monyet.cc ) 
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        Weak

  • pinponpen ( pinponpen@monyet.cc ) 
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    Wishing everyone a good July ahead!

    • Annoyed_🦀  ( Annoyed_Crabby@monyet.cc ) 
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      It’s july already 😩

  • idle SCV ( nil_in_nil_out@monyet.cc ) 
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    • Naomikho ( Naomikho@monyet.cc ) 
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      It’s totally okay to feel that way — I’m also Chinese, but my main language is English. I’m not exactly a true Chinese either as my livestyle and beliefs differ a lot because I’m much more westernized and I’m an atheist. You are welcomed to open a new community for one or more of your interest stacks!

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    • just another rakyat ( rakyat@monyet.cc ) 
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      I came from smjk c and nowadays none of my ex classmates type in Chinese anymore lol. Sure we still speak mandarin when f2f with each other out of habit, but our work environments & in many cases our spouses are mostly English, so English kinda naturally replaced Chinese for many of us. We also speak English with fellow Chinese-educated colleagues at the work place.

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        • just another rakyat ( rakyat@monyet.cc ) 
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          Well speaking from experience, it’s mostly useful if you’ve China clients and your boss will ask you to tag along as a translator haha. But turns out the China clients often speak fluent English as well.

    • chinapotatogg ( chinapotatogg@monyet.cc ) 
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      The people whom you describe are not the type of users who frequent here. Hard to create a community where the people you might share commonality with don’t know you exist .

      I think you’re trying to find a place to call home in a completely wrong country (so to speak). The apps/websites that the mandarin community uses are completely different with almost no overlapped from the ones majority of the user here use.

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  • chinapotatogg ( chinapotatogg@monyet.cc ) 
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    Registering didn’t seem to be hard as I thought.

    Hello everybody.

    • just another rakyat ( rakyat@monyet.cc ) 
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      Welcome!

    • Annoyed_🦀  ( Annoyed_Crabby@monyet.cc ) 
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      Hello!

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    • blue_tea_latte ( blue_tea_latte@monyet.cc ) 
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      good chance to try reddit detox, haha

  • cendawanita ( cendawanita@monyet.cc ) 
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    Lemmy instances can’t fully show off Kbin-based communities (aka magazines) they’ve federated with, so just giving a shout to the Microblog section of MagASEAN (which you can subscribe from here though !magASEAN@kbin.social) since the recent posts are full of makan posts: https://kbin.social/m/magASEAN/microblog

  • Annoyed_🦀  ( Annoyed_Crabby@monyet.cc ) 
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    Urgh, Connect is so bad, keep saying instance is under maintenance even though i can access it in web 😒

  • aerir ( aerir@lemmy.nz ) 
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    hello, from the other side

    • Annoyed_🦀  ( Annoyed_Crabby@monyet.cc ) 
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      With how janky the fediverse is:

      You must’ve called a thousand times

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        I’m only seeing 10 comments in this thread, instead of 60+

        Could be I’m the only user here access this community

        • Annoyed_🦀  ( Annoyed_Crabby@monyet.cc ) 
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          Maybe, it’s super annoying sometime. Or maybe because of that language filter, first timer will set their language and that might affect what you see here. They should’ve just remove the setting entirely

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