I think the difference that spez failed to realize when he decided to turn the enshittification dial up to 11 is that, unlike facebook, whatsapp, instagram, etc, we were not on reddit because of people we know. There was no peer pressure or awkward conversations. We did not rely on reddit as a means of communication that was irreplaceable. When the whatsapp drama happened, we couldn’t really up and leave, because grandma doesn’t know how to download signal. because the local market down the road has whatsapp set up for orders and doesn’t really give a shit. the family group has important starred chats that we refer to, etc etc.
This is not at all the case with reddit. Reddit is where we went for content. But whether the content is on reddit, lemmy, or the back of a shampoo bottle in the bathroom, it made no difference whatsoever. In my jump from reddit I’ve had to explain to exactly zero people why I’m making this decision. You cannot do that with instagram or whatsapp; and it took me years to convince people that I will not use facebook (thankfully that’s now a little more acceptable of a concept, but i digress). they wanted to play like the big social media boys, but they forgot that, in their core, they are not a social media platform.
Yes but if you’re blocking 10 individuals from the same instance every day, it kinda makes sense, and if there are people who are actually willing to engage in a good faith conversation from either side it’s easy to create an account on another instance