I am rethinking my priorities, always. You could read some of my other comments and see that I was having a bad day. But I’ll you what: I don’t take kindly to fake pathos.
It’s in effect just being condescending, and that’s just throwing more gasoline on the fire. I’ve seen it used a lot lately. Like beginning a sentence with “u good?” and then just dismissing points or ideas that was the intent.
It’s particularly nefarious here on Lemmy, because people go into two paragraphs with fake pathos and it is honestly infuriating.
“You’ll catch more bees with honey” rings true, but please don’t think people are stupid.
As it stands there’s not a single rebuttal to what I see as a severe political issue. It’s not just derisive, but it helps nothing.
People might just retreat deeper into their holes, and if that was the intent, that’s what I call bad faith. In effect that helps no one.
So please don’t play armchair psychiatrist. You have your vices too. We all crave some form of validation. Being ignorant of that means you probably need to recheck your priorities.
So you decided that because someone didn’t upvote your comment even though they thanked you, they were displaying fAlSe PaThOs? And then went on several turgid self-important rants about how everyone is just acting in bad faith?
We all crave validation but holy shit are you something else
…aren’t we done with this yet? Still not satisfied with trying to crawl into my brain, or is this all performative? Did that one point mean anything? Is it such a great cudgel to wield?
Not much crawling required when the comments are right there, you utter cabbage. Now put the thesaurus down and maybe take a break from the internet, it’d do you good
You can’t keep saying LaSt WoRd over and over you know.
No more essays on how not upvoting you is a sign of false pathos and bad faith? No more whinging about kitchen psychology but then going on about how I want to “dominate and own” you? Lose your thesaurus?
Got you to devolve to “no u” with your “I was stating what YOU want” so I’m pretty satisfied with the outcome. I’m sure I’ll see you whinging about upvotes in other threads
I am rethinking my priorities, always. You could read some of my other comments and see that I was having a bad day. But I’ll you what: I don’t take kindly to fake pathos.
It’s in effect just being condescending, and that’s just throwing more gasoline on the fire. I’ve seen it used a lot lately. Like beginning a sentence with “u good?” and then just dismissing points or ideas that was the intent.
It’s particularly nefarious here on Lemmy, because people go into two paragraphs with fake pathos and it is honestly infuriating.
“You’ll catch more bees with honey” rings true, but please don’t think people are stupid.
As it stands there’s not a single rebuttal to what I see as a severe political issue. It’s not just derisive, but it helps nothing.
People might just retreat deeper into their holes, and if that was the intent, that’s what I call bad faith. In effect that helps no one.
So please don’t play armchair psychiatrist. You have your vices too. We all crave some form of validation. Being ignorant of that means you probably need to recheck your priorities.
So you decided that because someone didn’t upvote your comment even though they thanked you, they were displaying fAlSe PaThOs? And then went on several turgid self-important rants about how everyone is just acting in bad faith?
We all crave validation but holy shit are you something else
…aren’t we done with this yet? Still not satisfied with trying to crawl into my brain, or is this all performative? Did that one point mean anything? Is it such a great cudgel to wield?
Last word.
Not much crawling required when the comments are right there, you utter cabbage. Now put the thesaurus down and maybe take a break from the internet, it’d do you good
I don’t think I’m the one who needs to get off the internet… even though all along that’s what you wanted. To dominate, to own…
Last word.
You can’t keep saying LaSt WoRd over and over you know.
No more essays on how not upvoting you is a sign of false pathos and bad faith? No more whinging about kitchen psychology but then going on about how I want to “dominate and own” you? Lose your thesaurus?
I’m just stating what you want, and that’s the last word.
But whatevs, my dude :/ I wish you well. Don’t wanna keep playing this game.
Got you to devolve to “no u” with your “I was stating what YOU want” so I’m pretty satisfied with the outcome. I’m sure I’ll see you whinging about upvotes in other threads
No I won’t. But you said you’re satisfied with this thread? What’s that say about you?