• this is great and probably speaks really well to people who have experienced typical cis male socialization and i love that for them and hope they can explore their submissive side more

    now if only there was a similar article for trans guys coming around on their dominant side… i would really appreciate that lmao

    (to elaborate more: it is hard to feel good about being into domming people as a guy raised with a strong understanding of the patriarchy and how the abuse of power hurts people. it’s a core belief of mine to treat people as equals, peers, individuals capable of governing their own sovereignty

    so naturally, i’m also into domming people. not exclusively. but it’s definitely something i struggle to feel comfortable with)