I was watching a video from two years ago about different social norms and this showed up. Found someone questioning the same eight years ago on reddit (when it seemed less normalized). It feels so weird not being aware of this shift, even as a foreigner.

  • Depending on context I tend to respond with:

    • No problem (they seem to think it will in fact be a problem like if someone at work asks for help on something nobody wants to do)
    • All good (they’re exasperated after the fact and worried I might be too and am judging them)
    • Any time (some simple thing they’re just saying thanks out of habit)
    • Of course (usually said in a softer tone, empathetic/reassuring response to let them know I’m here for them)
    • Yep (fuck you don’t ask me for anything again)