• Big deal, just self host in a VPS if you’re willing to pay $$$.

    Don’t make the mistake though of self hosting (Dendrite) as it will just choke, in my case it was a single user instance subscribed to only a handful of channels but apparently that was too much for my server to load messages in any manner that would be considered quick.

    I’ve self hosted several services at once on there but apparently Matrix is just too heavy too handle compared to other things.