•  apis   ( @apis@beehaw.org ) 
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    38 months ago

    Tbh the reputed rudeness was usually just brusqueness, only a mode amongst some of the population (with just as many or more being utterly charming), and had largely ceased to be a thing over 20 years ago.

      •  apis   ( @apis@beehaw.org ) 
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        38 months ago

        Yeah, I’d say that French brusqueness was softer than Danish.

        Faffing around overly seems rude to me - too much scope for misunderstanding when one have to hope the other person has read between the lines as one intended them.