•  EvilCartyen   ( @EvilCartyen@feddit.dk ) 
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    155 months ago

    My favourite country to visit would be France, I like the food, I like the language, I like the people, I like the culture in general.

    Many people claim the French are rude which is not my experience at all. Maybe because Danes are ruder? 😂

    Au contraire, I’ve only been met with respect and professionalism when I’ve been to France.

      •  EvilCartyen   ( @EvilCartyen@feddit.dk ) 
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        65 months ago

        Hehe, I’ve been to Paris twice, and to Bordeaux, Montpellier, Hauts de France, and surrounding countryside as well. This year we’ll drive to Alsace-Lorraine and visit the Vosges. I’ve liked every visit 🙂

        I mean, some people are rude, that’s normal. But overall we’ve been treated really well no matter where we’ve been.

        I was in Bordeaux with my family for the world cup in 2018, it was a great experience even with thousands of people and us with two toddlers.

        Sorry, this comes of as a love letter to France 😂 I promise, I also love visiting other parts of Europe!

        • That’s a nice tour indeed! The Vosges are great for nature, I think it’s the last rainforest in France.
          Alsace has some of the most beautiful villages in the country, great wine and great food.
          Lorraine is a bit plain but you have some pretty spots (pays de Bitche is cool) and loads of history (Verdun, Maginot Line).
          A few underrated spots for me are Cantal and Ariège, the first one is a massive dormant stratovolcano and the second one is a pretty wild area (at least in the mountains). They’re both great for nature and hikes.

    •  crispy_kilt   ( @crispy_kilt@feddit.de ) 
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      Many people claim the French are rude which is not my experience at all.

      99.9% of this is from US-americans who visit just Paris and speak very loud US-english to everyone. The Parisians are not as nice as the rest of France and no one appreciates an ignorant tourist speaking loud US-english into one’s face as if it were a walmart in Texas or something.

      In general the French are nice people.

      •  EvilCartyen   ( @EvilCartyen@feddit.dk ) 
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        65 months ago

        I think it’s a power-thing. Some Americans follow the ‘customer is always right’ thinking and expect staff to be servile. But my experience in Europe is that when you interact with a waiter or a shop assistant you’re interacting with an equal who happens to be serving you at that moment, and who also expects a certain something from you.

        I still remember a waiter who was very disappointed in me because I didn’t know which wine I wanted to have with my fish 😂 Sorry, Danes don’t know much about wine. Anyway, the only time I’ve encountered rude staff was in Belgium and only once or twice - and probably just because we seemed impatient.

    • I found the Danes to be direct but nice.

      French on the other hand can be nice on the front, and then stab you in the back. Also i have made the experience that many of them are increadibly racist and when they travel assume a colonial attitude. I’ll never travel again with French people for that matter.

    • My impression is that things have changed in the last 20 years or so. These days, people will not look at you like you’re some disgusting bug if you speak to them in English. Haven’t really been there a lot, though.

    •  apis   ( @apis@beehaw.org ) 
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      35 months ago

      Tbh the reputed rudeness was usually just brusqueness, only a mode amongst some of the population (with just as many or more being utterly charming), and had largely ceased to be a thing over 20 years ago.

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          35 months ago

          Yeah, I’d say that French brusqueness was softer than Danish.

          Faffing around overly seems rude to me - too much scope for misunderstanding when one have to hope the other person has read between the lines as one intended them.

    •  rekabis   ( @rekabis@lemmy.ca ) 
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      105 months ago

      Both my parents immigrated from Germany before meeting and marrying each other.

      When I went back on my own in the late 80s, I got the most disconcerting feeling of being somewhere that was simultaneously intimately familiar while also being completely foreign.

      Even just walking through the countryside gave me an indescribingly aching feeling in my chest, like I wanted to lie down in the tall grass and become one with the land and bind myself to it like some giant oak tree. Even the small villages with homes that often were a thousand-plus years old gave this impression of disturbingly compelling and eternal intimacy, and It absolutely freaked me out because I couldn’t understand it.

      In all the places I have physically been, I have only ever felt something familiar in one other place: Vancouver Island in the Nanaimo region.

    •  EvilCartyen   ( @EvilCartyen@feddit.dk ) 
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      55 months ago

      I’ve never vacationed in Germany, mainly because my wife does not speak German. I do want to go, though, I have a feeling that there’s a lot of regional culture and food to discover if we just gave it a go.

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      25 months ago

      Loved my one very short trip to Germany & really want to start making many more visits.

      Great people, beautiful language & seems like you guys have a bit of everything. Banging.

  •  Oliofizodos   ( @Oliofizodos@feddit.de ) 
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    Greece Malaka! The original Europeans, the honorary middle easterners. Great food, beautiful nature, lovely people. Additionally, Athens is a fucked up but also very interesting place.

    I’m hating on the influx of non-European tourists that are willing to pay the most ridiculous prices. This has made most of the islands impossibly expensive, where 5 years ago it was still very affordable if you avoided places like Mykonos and Santorin.

  • Russia because usually it’s Russia that visits you. Then stays way too long, eats your food, sleeps in your bed, clogs your toilet and finally leaves with everything you own.

  •  kfet   ( @kfet@lemmy.ca ) 
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    45 months ago

    I love visiting Portugal, been a few times to Lisbon, amazing city, and to the Algarve region. Visiting Porto is still on my todo list, I hear it’s really nice too.