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 cowboycrustation [he/him]   ( @cowboycrustation@lemmy.blahaj.zone ) M to Trans@lemmy.blahaj.zoneEnglish · 2 years ago

What differences have you noticed in the way that people treat you after presenting as your gender?

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What differences have you noticed in the way that people treat you after presenting as your gender?

 cowboycrustation [he/him]   ( @cowboycrustation@lemmy.blahaj.zone ) M to Trans@lemmy.blahaj.zoneEnglish · 2 years ago
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    •  knightly the Sneptaur   ( @knightly@pawb.social ) 
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      The “Sir” people are definitely my biggest pet peeve at the moment.

      It’s understandable, because I’m an enby with a villainously curled moustache, but I see that as an androgynous characteristic. Spending time every morning putting my face on is not a traditionally masculine habit. XD

      I rather enjoy the compliments I get for it, just not the honorifics.

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          In some ways, yeah.

          Growing up in Texas in the 90’s didn’t provide a lot of role models for gender diversity. I didn’t meet an openly trans person 'til college. >_<

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              For sure. A friend of mine in college came out to me as transmasc and that was the last little push I needed to be more open about myself. 😄

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