I’m not sure if I should mark this as ‘NSFW’ even though I don’t like that term and don’t think it’s really necessary, just wondering in general without any specifics, I have anyway, just in case.

I have looked around Lemmy and mostly found subpar ‘BDSM Communities’ that aren’t imo the best (because they seem to have a very specific idea of what BDSM is) and BDSM only covers one aspect of kink anyway.

So I was wondering if there were any well moderated more encompassing communities out there, and if not what would be the best way of creating one besides running my own instance (which I do not have the money nor skills to do)?

  •  Lime Buzz (fae/she)   ( @SweetCitrusBuzz@beehaw.org ) OP
    1•2 months ago

    Thank you for letting me know and yeah that’s fair. I think doing so is disabled or something on the instance I’m on sadly and I’m not sure which instances it isn’t or if the admins/moderators of the instance I’m on would even allow me to if I asked.