Develop into your own beautiful human, first. A lot of dudes are mid at best; myself included

    • Could really just remove the genders from what this person said and make it applicable to everyone. Young men should be doing the same thing.

      Toxic femininity and masculinity both push the narrative of how young men need to constantly pursue women, and everything they do should be in pursuit of chasing pussy. How men should always be available to women when the time comes.

      Grow for yourself.

    • Yes.

      Men are miles behind on the self development front in a lot of cases though. Generational suppression of feelings and an inability to cope with them correctly has done us a massive disservice. Like a deer with chronic wasting disease, we stagger on, continuing to do the same thing, despite how tragically fucked up we are.