If you are usually a reddit lurker and are on here, it would be cool if you can try and engage with communities for a bit, just to try and get the ball rolling :)

      • That kinda comes with smaller communities, I think.
        I’m sure toxic people will figure out lemmy eventually too, but for now it’s been nice.

        The only subreddit I still care about has been private from the start and has between 300-400 people in it who have been randomly invited over time.
        Post or comment every week and get kicked. On the whole, lemmy reminds me of that place a bit since the communities are smaller and idk how to put this but that feels. … more human?

    • Yeah, turns out reddit notifications made me very anxious. It was never “oh, somebody answered me” it was always “Ugh, what now?!”. I even turned off completely the notificationson my phone, I only knew there were some when I opened the app and saw a number.

      Seeing multiple ones just got me into “Oh, no” territory.