Hey everyone! I hope your day is going well!
Apologies for a little vague title, its just that I have graduated from college now in Computer Science. It’s just the thing I am a little worried is about my social life and my weight. Like since I graduated like a month ago, my job is gonna start next month so between the free time I spend literally indoors all the day and night playing CK3, reading, learning some stuff I thought I might need them when I’ll start working. I just have feelings to talk about and try to see what can I do for myself.
Like I know I’ll need to get my car now that I finally got my driver’s license once I get a month’s pay. I feel like I am just not interesting person and can’t socialize even though I do text and call some people like I feel like there is something missing. I never had a girlfriend, missed out on that experience and everything. I think that is something I feel like that’s missing cause even if I have a great time with my friends and everything, its just I want someone to be there for me at night as well like close to me. It seems unrealistic and progressively starting to feel hopeless that I won’t find love.
I do engage in my hobbies and just started to learn my guitar. I do need to hit the gym, its just transportation is a big hassle so I thought maybe I’d just wait till I get my car so I can hit the gym.
Sorry if I said was unclear and being all over the place. I hope everyone has a nice day!
It’s natural to have the concerns you are describing. What I can say from both experience and observation is this: don’t focus on where you think you should be based on what you see in others or by following some arbitrary timeline. If instead you focus on taking care of yourself and allowing yourself discover what your priorities are with an open mind, you are less likely to realize down the road that you have spent too much time chasing someone else’s vision.
Be as patient and supportive with yourself as you would with someone else you care about. Remember that there are a lot of lonely and discouraged people quietly carrying their own burdens every day as they walk by. They too are looking for hope.
Congratulations on your graduation! That is a major accomplishment.