I wrote one comment and was content to leave it there. The only reason the conversation has dragged on is that I had no right to participate on a public forum.

I’ve been engaged in activism for quite some time, and the reactions I got increasingly irritated by are exactly how you kill sympathy for your cause. Engage. Educate. Telling people they shouldn’t even be there by the trans community is so tone-deaf that I’m having trouble following how the vitriol advances the movement.

I’m trying to help. I’m trying to explain how organizing and building a community works, and I keep being told that being cis means I have nothing to contribute. It’s sort of devolved into vegans attacking vegetarians for cruelty. Neither eats meat, yet they focus on their differences instead of realizing they have the same ethics, just draw lines differently.