Watched a TikTok last night of a lesbian reviewing 10 sex toys she had been sent. They all looked so fun, some of them had these really cool thrusting motions and warmers, others had sucking and tongue motions!

As a penis owner, it makes me sad how bland our toy selection is if anal is off the table. As a gal with chronic gut issues and limited spoons for prep, I wish there were a fun and exciting selection of toys for people with my anatomy that dont revolve around anal. It makes me wonder… Does anyone have experiences with toys made for vulvas and vaginas? Its hard knowing which ones might work well on a penis (like the sucking toys maybe? But it feels like none of them would be big enough. Perhaps for the frenelum? Who knows.).

I just wish I could have my own collection of power tools like so many of my vulva/vagina having friends do.

  • apotheotic (she/her) ( apotheotic@beehaw.org ) English
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    27 days ago

    Girl any number of the fun looking vibrators will work a treat - vibrators on the frenulum or glans or even anywhere else can send you crazy.

    You can get suckers similar to the clit suckers, but designed for penises (I personally have used the arcwave ion which was quite spectacular until I broke it by being negligent when I was packing toys away)

    A magic wand vibrator specifically will change your life. Get a mains-powered one, if you are only going to buy one. Having something that won’t die on you when you’re moments away from seeing the fabric of the universe unfold, is an enormous plus.

    Get yourself some nipple suckers, lovehoney has these cheap ones they call “perfect pair” but literally anything like them will do the job, and it’s hands free stimulation which is awesome. Feels like someone who is just holding suction on your tit with their mouth while they focus on other stimulation.

    Besides that, if a penetrative toy looks sexy to you and makes your brain run away with things, just fuckin get it and rub it on your body, grind your buttocks against it, suck on it for all I care. Sensuality is so so so heavily a mental game. The physical stimulation is important but I think I’d stop masturbating entirely if it didn’t make my brain feel sexy.

    Note: This is SO FAR from an exhaustive list. I have opted not to post links to any of the products I mentioned because I don’t wanna seem like a shill or some shit but if you want links, I can share.

    • PurpleFanatic ( PurpleFanatic@quokk.au ) OPEnglish
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      27 days ago

      Thanks for such a comprehensive answer! I’ll definitely look into the “Perfect Pair”. I think a play partner from a few years ago had them, but that was well before I had tits.

      I think the idea of going all in on sensuality too is a nice way of looking at it. I think i really need to figure out how to connect with that side of me properly, because idk… Masturbating just dont feel the same anymore and I have no idea what im doing. Hence the toy exploration ig!