I really love being bi and believe I fall under the umbrella but I don’t feel attracted to the same sex enough to be bi.

I still find the same sex hot but it feels like I don’t feel that enough to be bisexual. This just feels strange

  • My favorite definition is as follows

    The capability to experience attraction to more than one gender

    I like it for the following reasons:

    • No weird requirements around action vs. attraction - people know who they’re attracted to before they’ve had sex
    • Allows space for bisexuals who primarily experience attraction towards a very limited group of individuals as well as for people who experience attraction to nearly all individuals
    • Eliminates issues with sex/gender essentialism