plactagonic ( @plactagonic@sopuli.xyz ) 94•1 year agoCyclists, some people just see red when they came across cyclist at the road.
deadbeef79000 ( @deadbeef79000@lemmy.nz ) 46•1 year agoCycle infrastructure, even.
Exocrinous ( @exocrinous@lemm.ee ) English28•1 year agoBike lanes are car infrastructure. We cyclists are perfectly within our rights to cycle in the middle of the lane at a speed comfortable for us. And it’s safer for us to do that than hug the shoulder and risk getting clipped by an impatient driver. A bike lane gets us out of your way so you can drive the speed limit. It’s for your benefit.
deadbeef79000 ( @deadbeef79000@lemmy.nz ) 10•1 year agoThat’s why it’s hate for no reason!
The same hatred from the same haters for public transport too: if everyone else is in public transport there more room for you on the road.
It’s a bizarrely prevalent attitude from a bizarrely large portion of car users.
We had some nice mini-traffic island things separating a cycleway on a road, drivers kept hitting them and damaging their cars. They complained and the council removed them despite it being obvious to anyone that they were doing extremely what they were supposed to do: stopping those idiots from hitting actual cyclists!
tubbadu ( @tubbadu@lemmy.kde.social ) 2•1 year agoHoly words
PotatoesFall ( @PotatoesFall@discuss.tchncs.de ) 1•1 year agoI thought this as well but German drivers will dangerously swerve into oncoming traffic to overtake me sometimes when I block a lane. Even if there is a red stop light 50m down the road.
Exocrinous ( @exocrinous@lemm.ee ) English2•1 year agoWell, it’s less of them, and at least they’re risking their own lives too. If there’s an accident I want the person responsible coming with me to the hospital. That might not be rational, but it’s how I feel.
PotatoesFall ( @PotatoesFall@discuss.tchncs.de ) 2•1 year agoLol it’s not rational but I know how you feel. Sometimes I daydream somebody hits me and wrecks my bike and then feels so bad that they give me loads of money in hopes of me not suing them, and then I use that to buy a better bike. And then I wonder wtf is going wrong in my brain
eezeebee ( @eezeebee@lemmy.ca ) English9•1 year agoThat’s not “for absolutely no reason”. Some cyclists make a bad name for the rest.
Edit: Oh my goodness, you guys. I’m not saying hate for cyclists is justified, that I hate all cyclists, or that “all cyclists do x”. Some cyclists ride like they have a death wish. So do some drivers. Anyone, regardless of their vehicle, who is willing to put their life in my hands is someone I want to stay far the fuck away from.
plactagonic ( @plactagonic@sopuli.xyz ) 26•1 year agoYeah I know an A-hole driver so all drivers must be A**holes.
No some people just don’t have good reason.
TexMexBazooka ( @TexMexBazooka@lemm.ee ) 7•1 year agoYou can say ass on the internet bud, it’s ok.
Exocrinous ( @exocrinous@lemm.ee ) English10•1 year ago all-knight-party ( @all-knight-party@kbin.run ) 7•1 year agoI think the thread was titled poorly. Anything that gets a lot of hate usually has some sort of reason, even if it may not be justifiable.
Exocrinous ( @exocrinous@lemm.ee ) English10•1 year agoThere’s absolutely no reason to hate on a cyclist when you wouldn’t hate on a car polluter, because unlike car polluters, we aren’t murderers.
ninjaphysics ( @ninjaphysics@beehaw.org ) 5•1 year agoTruth. Furthermore, accidents involving a bike and a car have mostly happened because of a lack of infrastructure and options for safe travel on bikes. Public residential streets, for example, are for all modes of transportation, not just cars. Car brains are hysterical and don’t like that, and my life has been threatened many times while riding my bike on residential streets. I even had an older woman match my speed, roll down her window, and say “Next time I see you I’m running you over.” Cyclists do absolutely nothing to deserve this, and even if they’re holding up traffic, it’s no excuse for homicide.
all-knight-party ( @all-knight-party@kbin.run ) 3•1 year agoI’m sure there are many reasons to hate on a cyclist, (not that I personally believe this, but) such as when they block a single lane road slowing traffic to a crawl and placing the responsibility of possibly accidentally killing a cyclist in the motorist’s hands, though you could argue that’s more about the fact that the roads don’t have dedicated bike lanes, and that’s not the cyclist’s fault, but it is still a reason, not that that reason is justified, I like cyclists!
Exocrinous ( @exocrinous@lemm.ee ) English3•1 year agoFor thousands of years, people walked on roads. That’s what they were for. They were also for horses, donkeys, and carts, but humans were a big part of it. And none of those four things really goes faster than a bike. Cars are new. Taking people and horses off roads is new. Being able to drive the speed limit is a new, temporary condition, and it can be taken away at any time. Blaming this on cyclists is a reaction based on a misunderstanding of what roads are for. Personally, I support legislature to let people walk on the road however they like again.
eezeebee ( @eezeebee@lemmy.ca ) English2•1 year agoThat’s exactly what I was trying to say. I was also a (very cautious) cyclist until my bike was stolen.
kureta ( @kureta@lemmy.ml ) 5•1 year agoExcept Berliner cyclists. They scare me.
Ada ( @ada@lemmy.blahaj.zone ) English84•1 year agoTrans people
ugh ( @ugh@lemm.ee ) 28•1 year agoBut… bathrooms!!! With the children!!! /s
LainTrain ( @LainTrain@lemmy.dbzer0.com ) 2•1 year agoA lot of that is just unavoidable lookism sadly, maybe I’m too doomer
Ada ( @ada@lemmy.blahaj.zone ) 12•1 year agoAt the individuated level, it likely plays a part, but it’s got nothing to do with the systemic institutional hatred
ULS ( @ULS@lemmy.ml ) 1•1 year agoI’m terrified of Weiner and vagina and everything in-between.
Edit: wtf is so special that Weiner auto capitalizes?
sleepyTonia ( @sleepyTonia@programming.dev ) 3•1 year agoWeiner is a surname… and also a misspelling of wiener.
KyuubiNoKitsune ( @KyuubiNoKitsune@lemmy.blahaj.zone ) 54•1 year agoTrans people, seriously, they just want to live their lives in peace. They’re not here to radicalise anything or to “trick” anyone. They just want to get on with their lives and be left alone.
PotatoesFall ( @PotatoesFall@discuss.tchncs.de ) 7•1 year agothe other replies to this comment reaaaally prove your point.
Are people really stupid enough to think that every single trans person is a loud screeching SJW?
Not to mention trans people are constantly under attack in most places and NEED to speak up.
Teppichbrand ( @Teppichbrand@feddit.de ) 46•1 year agoVEGANISM!
It’s great for your health, we’d solve like 25% of the climate catastrophe overnight and it redeems billions of our fellow earthlings from the unimaginable suffering we inflict on them 24/7.
It’s a ridiculously obvious and easy step we should take as a species, yet even hardcore leftists turn into irrational idiots and go full Bullshit Bingo when you bring it up. Because they have become accustomed to a taste. PotatoesFall ( @PotatoesFall@discuss.tchncs.de ) 7•1 year agoI try to tell people to ditch beef as a compromise. I’m flexetarian myself and try to avoid meat, but beef is by far the worst offender when it comes to climate.
I think the average person doesn’t want to give up all meat dairy and eggs all in one go. Removing beef is highly effective and a first step into a more conscious diet.
blindsight ( @blindsight@beehaw.org ) 4•1 year agoEggs are a super food, too. They’re cheap, delicious, and have dense nutrition. And, if you live anywhere close to rural, you can get farm-fresh eggs from ethically treated, well fed chickens for cheap.
We minimize our meat consumption, but we eat lots of eggs, and I don’t see any ethical concerns with people’s backyard chicken coops.
LSNLDN ( @LSNLDN@slrpnk.net ) 4•1 year agoVegan.bingo that’s amazing I’m gonna just refer to that for every one of those conversations from now on
Lad ( @AFC1886VCC@reddthat.com ) 37•1 year agoStriking workers.
Living in apartments.
In a lot of cities and towns living in apartments is seen as something that young adults who are renting short term do, and definitely not families or older couples.
Living in an apartment is considerably cheaper for my situation. I drive so much less, I pay for less power, and I have all this parkland around me.
I’m a car guy and I don’t have a garage, that’s annoying, but I commute by escooter now and drive on the weekends. It’s much better.
ReCursing ( @ReCursing@kbin.social ) 34•1 year agoNickelback. I mean they’re not good but they’re not really bad either, just a complete nonevent. They don’t deserve the hate they get, they don’t really deserve anything
0ops ( @0ops@lemm.ee ) 10•1 year agoYeah, most of the hate is because they were super overplayed for a solid decade. For years the popular radio stations in my area didn’t seem to play anything but Nickelback, green day, Lady Gaga, and pink. In a vacuum, they’re fine. “How you remind me” is pretty good imo. I don’t care for anything else from them. I’ve heard that their guitar player is actually really talented, but I haven’t listened to them enough to know myself
Susaga ( @Susaga@ttrpg.network ) English4•1 year agoAh, the common paradox. Nobody wants to listen to Nickelback because it’s overplayed, and nobody drives in New York because of all the traffic.
TruthAintEasy ( @TruthAintEasy@kbin.social ) 2•1 year agoI dont want to listen to them because there is nearly infinite better music than the overproduced boring stuff. Some tunes are catchy, even seen them live once because my mom wanted company, but they are mid at best imo
Lad ( @AFC1886VCC@reddthat.com ) 3•1 year ago“All the right reasons” is a solid album by them. Nothing groundbreaking or unique in terms of sound but it’s an enjoyable listen.
kurcatovium ( @kurcatovium@lemm.ee ) English1•1 year agoOh, boy, they most certainly deserve the hate. This article sums it up pretty well: https://www.grunge.com/51980/nickelback-became-hated-band-music-industry/
Susaga ( @Susaga@ttrpg.network ) English11•1 year agoHoly fuck, that article is elitist. Half of the sections seem pointlessly mean, like they’re trying to dunk on them to win popularity points. One of them is just insulting Chad Kroeger for marrying Avril Lavigne, as if a 10+ year marriage is a bad thing. Some valid points buried in there, but the credibility is lost.
BoscoBear ( @HaywardT@lemmy.sdf.org ) 2•1 year agoAnother thing that is hated for no reason. Age-gap relationships.
kurcatovium ( @kurcatovium@lemm.ee ) English1•1 year agoSome valid points? Some? Well, yeah, there are some that probably could be omitted, but most stands strong.
Maybe I’m biased as I listen to more or less different genres, but there’s nothing wrong on hating on Nickelback.
Susaga ( @Susaga@ttrpg.network ) English3•1 year agoWhy would you hate someone for making music you don’t enjoy? Why hate someone for making money with a successful product? Why not just… Ignore them? You are under no obligation to like them, but there’s only around three arguments in there to actually hate them. There are more arguments in that article that boil down to “it’s successful, so it sucks” than valid criticism.
0ops ( @0ops@lemm.ee ) 3•1 year agoIt’s cool to hate
HobbitFoot ( @HobbitFoot@thelemmy.club ) English2•1 year agoLiking something is just a waste of time.
0ops ( @0ops@lemm.ee ) 2•1 year agoThanks I’m glad someone got it
lazylion_ca ( @lazylion_ca@lemmy.ca ) 2•1 year agoBeing cool is so lame.
kurcatovium ( @kurcatovium@lemm.ee ) English2•1 year agoDon’t get me wrong, I do enjoy rock music (among others), but assholes like Nickelback are making terrible example of it. When someone asks me what I listen to and I reply “rock music” the person often reply along the lines of “ah, ok, like Nickelback?” And that’s just disgusting.
I don’t actively hate on them posting shit on the internet on my own or marching with antiNickelback sign in RL, but when someone asks or when discussion revolves around, I tell him I hate the band.
Being successful musician has nothing to do with it. People like Kanye or Taylor Swift made way more money with their (IMO shitty) music, but I don’t hate them as Nickelback. Because they (probably, or at least not that obviously) don’t ruin the genre they perform in.
Edit: Half of what I want to say is probably lost in translation as English is not my native language, so I can’t make all the nuances I would do in my language.
Susaga ( @Susaga@ttrpg.network ) English2•1 year agoFirst, this was never about your opinion. It was about an article that complained about music being used in advertising, songs being popular, and people being inspired by a band. That was the opinion you cited as a good reason to hate them.
Second, how often does that actually happen? Considering it’s an internet meme to shit on them, how often do people cite Nickelback as their main example of rock ahead of, say, Nirvana?
Third, why is it disgusting that people mention a band you dislike? Can you not simply correct them and suggest the bands you ACTUALLY like? Does it have to be “hate” rather than “I’m not a fan”?
Fourth, how the hell did Nickelback ruin rock? Is rock so fragile that the Eagles can’t be enjoyed because of “How you remind me” existing? There are bands far worse than Nickelback, but they aren’t successful so you don’t care. If Nickelback weren’t as successful, you wouldn’t care about them either.
HobbitFoot ( @HobbitFoot@thelemmy.club ) English1•1 year agoNo, makes sense to me.
HobbitFoot ( @HobbitFoot@thelemmy.club ) English1•1 year agoIt is less “it’s successful, so it sucks” and more “I keep having to listen to something I don’t like, so now I hate it”.
Susaga ( @Susaga@ttrpg.network ) English2•1 year ago…But you don’t have to listen to it. If it’s on the radio, change the station. The complaints in the article were WAY too in depth for a casual listener to make.
HobbitFoot ( @HobbitFoot@thelemmy.club ) English1•1 year agoThat assumes you have control of the radio station or whatever songs are being played. It isn’t like that for a lot of people.
Truffle ( @Truffle@lemmy.ml ) 34•1 year agoFat people. There, I said it.
ULS ( @ULS@lemmy.ml ) 5•1 year agoIme fat people are pleasant to hang out with.
Truffle ( @Truffle@lemmy.ml ) 3•1 year agoYeah, being fat shouldn’t be a qualifier for anything IMHO. Like, let people live their lives in peace! There are pleasant and unpleasant fat people, as there are thin, so why does weight have to do with anything?! It is baffling to me we have to work so hard to humanize fat persons. Fat bias is so ingrained in our culture people think is ok.
ULS ( @ULS@lemmy.ml ) 3•1 year agoSome of the fat people I’ve worked with were so much more hard working than others. But on other hand some customers I’ve dealt with were the worst customers. There was a notorious mother daughter duo that my co workers labeled the “Thunder Cunts”. The sad part is they had kids that probably.lived a life of hell.
Truffle ( @Truffle@lemmy.ml ) 2•1 year agoYeah, child abuse is no joke. I bet you also had non fat customers who were a pain in the ass too, so it is not about weight, but about being an insufferable tw4twaffle.
ULS ( @ULS@lemmy.ml ) 2•1 year agoYeah I worked in a really shitty area. It was heartbreaking seeing how shitty people were.
Truffle ( @Truffle@lemmy.ml ) 2•1 year agoOh I feel for you. It is never easy to witness some stuff.
Gnome Kat ( @GnomeKat@lemmy.blahaj.zone ) 33•1 year agotrans people
Cowbee [he/they] ( @Cowbee@lemmy.ml ) 29•1 year agoSocialism/Communism/Anarchism. Barely anyone who actually understands them and the theory supporting them hates them, but tons of people have been fed Red Scare propaganda on the matter.
rottingleaf ( @rottingleaf@lemmy.zip ) 2•1 year agoHistorians studying them don’t hate, true, but we also don’t hate plague or dog shit on the road.
Cowbee [he/they] ( @Cowbee@lemmy.ml ) 10•1 year agoThat’s a bit of a non-answer, isn’t it? I’m clearly referring to implementing leftist structures today, not historically.
rottingleaf ( @rottingleaf@lemmy.zip ) 1•1 year agoNever tried for real, I see.
Why would one hate right ideas then, of the libertarian kind.
Cowbee [he/they] ( @Cowbee@lemmy.ml ) 9•1 year agoRead my other comment, it absolutely has been tried. If your point is that the relatively few historical examples are a sufficient sampling of data to determine that people sharing tools can never work, then I’m afraid you don’t understand numbers, nor historical analysis.
You can learn from what has and has not worked, and analyze structures. It’s possible! You just have to do it.
rottingleaf ( @rottingleaf@lemmy.zip ) 1•1 year agoIf your point is …
You know, of course, that the answer to that “if” is usually “no”, and this is called a strawman argument.
… then I’m afraid …
No reason to be afraid! Sing and dance and hug your family, friends and house animals.
… relatively few historical examples … people sharing tools …
People have been sharing tools since eating less fortunate breeds of people, the optimal architecture of that is the point of contention.
Cowbee [he/they] ( @Cowbee@lemmy.ml ) 4•1 year agoMore dodging, great! What’s your point?
rottingleaf ( @rottingleaf@lemmy.zip ) 1•1 year agoI’ve literally finished my comment with it.
rekabis ( @rekabis@lemmy.ca ) 2•1 year agoIf only there wasn’t a wealthy, parasitic, world-dominating country which would violently overthrow (or at least try) any country which didn’t kowtow to capitalism, and the Parasite Class.
Rin ( @Rinna@lemm.ee ) 29•1 year agoMale abuse/SA victims. It’s already not taken seriously enough when it happens to women, but when it happens to a guy they get put down even more and told to “man up”, sometimes even by people who’d support them if the sexes were swapped.
Baahb ( @Baahb@feddit.nl ) 6•1 year agoBeing one of those victims, it’s honestly worse than that. My (very former) best friend went on to marry and raise kids with the woman that he knew SA’d me.
juliebean ( @juliebean@lemm.ee ) 29•1 year agofurries
cobra89 ( @cobra89@beehaw.org ) 7•1 year agoWhile I agree and have no problem with furries, I think the issue is people seeing, what a lot of people in their own community see as linked to a sexual kink, being brought out into public spaces.
“Sexual attraction to furry characters is a polarizing issue. In one survey with 4,300 furry respondents, 37% answered that sexual attraction is important in their furry activities, 38% were ambivalent, and 24% answered that it has little or nothing to do with their furry activities.”
“Another survey at a furry convention in 2013 found that 96.3% of male furry respondents reported viewing furry pornography, compared with 78.3% of female; males estimated 50.9% of all furry art they view is pornographic, compared with 30.7% of females.”
So like clearly there is a large sexual component to the fandom, and I think it weirds people out and makes people uncomfortable when they see these people wearing their fur suits out in public. Which again to be clear is not something the entire community does or even tolerates, but there’s enough people who do so that it’s become part of the cultural zeitgeist.
But it’s also just the fact that it’s so far from normal vanilla experiences. Everyday people think role playing sexually is already adventurous and out there. Now add big animal suits that are typically associated with mascots for entertaining children and I think anyone can see why everyday people think it’s weird.
juliebean ( @juliebean@lemm.ee ) 2•1 year agohonestly that argument just feels like recycled homophobia to me. and just because something is weird doesn’t mean it should be hated.
cobra89 ( @cobra89@beehaw.org ) 4•1 year agoIt’s like you glossed over my entire comment and only read the last word…
ULS ( @ULS@lemmy.ml ) 3•1 year agoI don’t understand the furry thing. If anyone wants to explain it that would be cool.
I’ve gone to lgbtq+ bars and sometimes 1 or two people will have leather dog masks on. I don’t understand it though. Is it a sub/Dom thing? I’m kinda new to to the LGBTQ+ culture.
M. Orange ( @miracleorange@beehaw.org ) 2•1 year agoThe dog mask people are generally not furries. They’re called pups, and you’re actually right that pup play is a BDSM thing. The whole acting like a dog thing is more for dehumanization than anything else.
Furries are people who enjoy anthropomorphic animals for… well, a variety of reasons. Fursuits are extremely uncommon because they’re expensive as fuck, difficult to clean, easily damaged, etc. Most furries just come up with fursonas (generally online animal personas) and make art.
I know more about this than I otherwise would because I have friends who are pups and others who are furries.
juliebean ( @juliebean@lemm.ee ) 1•1 year agobasically, its a subculture of people who like anthropomorphic (i.e. humanized) animal characters, like zootopia, for one fairly recent mainstream example. some furries do dress up in costumes, but the leather dog masks are a somewhat unrelated bdsm thing, though there’s probably some significant overlap in the groups.
I Cast Fist ( @ICastFist@programming.dev ) 27•1 year agoThe idea of using public transportation. It’s something for “them” (the poor), not for “me” (rich). Changes significantly from country to country, I suppose, but it’s a prevalent thought here.
Ashy ( @cali_ash@lemmy.wtf ) 8•1 year agohere
That certainly clears things up …
Cataphract ( @Cataphract@lemmy.ml ) 4•1 year agoIs that necessary to clear up though? It’s a perfectly fine anecdotal statement that doesn’t require exacts unless you’re just trying to argue they’re wrong. No one else is having problems responding with the information provided.
I Cast Fist ( @ICastFist@programming.dev ) 2•1 year agoBrazil as a whole. Better?
WeirdGoesPro ( @WeirdGoesPro@lemmy.dbzer0.com ) 6•1 year agoPublic transportation is good. Sanitation on public transportation in America is bad.
I got very adept at touching nothing while riding a bumpy subway car in New York, but even that couldn’t always save me from the puddle of piss that ran like a heat seeking stream from the legs of the mentally ill.
pingveno ( @pingveno@lemmy.ml ) English2•1 year agoI am by no means poor and I save a lot of money by not having a car, but the fact of the matter is that people give me rides more than I would like. Even in Portland, a city with relatively good transit for its size given that it’s in the US, most of the city is still quite inaccessible.
kingthrillgore ( @KingThrillgore@lemmy.ml ) 2•1 year agoI noticed in the States that if its a bus, its a chariot for the poor. If its a train, its for everyone.
JWBananas ( @JWBananas@startrek.website ) English24•1 year agoNickelback
Zoop ( @Zoop@beehaw.org ) 2•1 year agoHaha my first thought when I read the title was Creed. We had similar thoughts.
ugh ( @ugh@lemm.ee ) 1•1 year agoNah, everyone else are haters or secret top 40 listeners.
TruthAintEasy ( @TruthAintEasy@kbin.social ) 0•1 year agoOh they deserve it, just not because of their music. I used to hang with a few guys that grew up in the same town, the stories they would tell…
DLSantini ( @DLSantini@lemmy.ml ) 23•1 year agoMSG
Original ( @Original@beehaw.org ) 3•1 year agoI always hear this one, it really isn’t bad for you it seems