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 CheesyCheese1 [She/her]   ( @CheesyCheese1@lemmy.ca ) Banned to traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns@lemmy.caEnglish · 2 years ago

Take the pink pill

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Take the pink pill

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 CheesyCheese1 [She/her]   ( @CheesyCheese1@lemmy.ca ) Banned to traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns@lemmy.caEnglish · 2 years ago
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  •  WalrusDragonOnABike [they/them]   ( @WalrusDragonOnABike@lemmy.today ) 
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    Warning. Taking the pink pill may lead to the following side effects: -others suddenly irrationally upset at you -ewwwphoric experiences -jars are harder to open

  •  fracture [he/him]   ( @fracture@beehaw.org ) 
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    cw: targeted towards trans femmes :')

    •  CheesyCheese1 [She/her]   ( @CheesyCheese1@lemmy.ca ) BannedOP
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      Who else would such a meme be targeted to especially when this is a women’s space.

      •  WalrusDragonOnABike [they/them]   ( @WalrusDragonOnABike@lemmy.today ) 
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        This isn’t a transfem community, nor a transfem enby-excluding community, afaik. There is a transfem community on Lemmy, but it’s explicitly inclusive of enbies, so still not just a women’s space.

        •  wizzwizz4   ( @wizzwizz4@fosstodon.org ) 
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          And it’s connected to the whole rest of the Fediverse, which is certainly not a women-only space. Things you post here will be seen outside the context of this magazine.

        •  CheesyCheese1 [She/her]   ( @CheesyCheese1@lemmy.ca ) BannedOP
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          Transfem and enby are mutually exclusive terms, a person can be one or the other but not both.

          •  WalrusDragonOnABike [they/them]   ( @WalrusDragonOnABike@lemmy.today ) 
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            Enby is an umbrella term that can includes people who are transmasc (ie: demiboys, libramascs), transfems (ie: demigirls, librafems), multigender, agender, genderfluid, and xenogenders. Transfem just describes the direction of transition and is not just limited to binary trans women.

            •  CheesyCheese1 [She/her]   ( @CheesyCheese1@lemmy.ca ) BannedOP
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              That doesn’t make sense, a person cannot want to be “NonBinary” and also want to be a trans woman at the same time.

              •  wizzwizz4   ( @wizzwizz4@fosstodon.org ) 
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                Why not?

                •  CheesyCheese1 [She/her]   ( @CheesyCheese1@lemmy.ca ) BannedOP
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                  because nonbinary is being neither male nor female and transfem is being a woman, a binary gender. They are not the same thing.

      •  fracture [he/him]   ( @fracture@beehaw.org ) 
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        how is this a women’s space?

        •  CheesyCheese1 [She/her]   ( @CheesyCheese1@lemmy.ca ) BannedOP
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          “how is this a women’s space?”

          > Majority of memes in the community are transfem memes

          •  fracture [he/him]   ( @fracture@beehaw.org ) 
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            the way you’re trying to exclude trans men from a general trans space “because most of the memes are trans fem” is really othering and hurtful

            i don’t feel like that reason makes it okay to be exclusive to trans men. if anything, that strikes me as a reason to be more considerate, not less

            sort of like how a typical women’s space should be considerate in including trans women, since they’re a minority of a marginalized group, no?

            incidentally, you should see that the rules of the subreddit which forbid bigotry and encourage tagging your post with the audience it’s aimed at

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