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 _MusicJunkie   ( @_MusicJunkie@beehaw.org )  to 196@lemmy.blahaj.zone · 11 months ago

rule of being

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rule of being

 _MusicJunkie   ( @_MusicJunkie@beehaw.org )  to 196@lemmy.blahaj.zone · 11 months ago
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  •  kittenzrulz123   ( @kittenzrulz123@lemmy.blahaj.zone ) M
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  •  Lime Buzz (fae/she)   ( @SweetCitrusBuzz@beehaw.org ) 
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    Ah, I see someone’s been on the kink again.

    •  Zagorath   ( @Zagorath@aussie.zone ) 
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      Huh?

      •  Lime Buzz (fae/she)   ( @SweetCitrusBuzz@beehaw.org ) 
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        Oh, nothing 😉

        •  Zagorath   ( @Zagorath@aussie.zone ) 
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          No seriously, what’s the reference here?

          •  Lime Buzz (fae/she)   ( @SweetCitrusBuzz@beehaw.org ) 
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            Oh, okay.

            Since you ask, it’s not a reference so much as saying this is what kink can do to people temporarily.

            •  unexposedhazard   ( @unexposedhazard@discuss.tchncs.de ) 
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              Like being so immersed in your horniness that you stop thinking?

              •  Lime Buzz (fae/she)   ( @SweetCitrusBuzz@beehaw.org ) 
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                No.

                Firstly kink isn’t inherently sexual.

                Secondly, I’m talking about things like ‘subspace’ and hypnosis (hypnokink) where there is little - no thought happening.

                If you would like to know more there is an excellent asexual kink educator on youtube called Evie Lupine.

                Also, there’s a community on lemmy for learning about kink: !kink@lemmy.blahaj.zone

                Hope this helps!

            •  Zagorath   ( @Zagorath@aussie.zone ) 
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              Oh right. So, like, is that what’s meant by ‘subspace’? I’ve heard the term used, but I’m not into kink personally so don’t really know precisely.

              •  Lime Buzz (fae/she)   ( @SweetCitrusBuzz@beehaw.org ) 
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                So, there are three types of ‘roles’ one can take in kink.

                Submissive or sub

                Dominant or dom/domme/domx etc

                Switch

                Submissives are usually the ones having things done to them (though they can do things to the dominant if the dominant commands them to).

                Dominants are usually the ones doing the things to others

                Switches can be either of these or sort of exist in an inbetween space.

                Sub space is a type of brain state a submissive enters when a dominant is doing a good job and the person is taking on a submissive role for a scene, so some of it can be generated by the submissive themsel{f/ves}.

                This video by Evie Lupine goes over it somewhat and might go into detail about the science, but I’m unsure if it was this one or another one which talks about the science:

                https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iilCgSjvCIc

                Does that make sense and do you have any other questions?

                •  Zagorath   ( @Zagorath@aussie.zone ) 
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                  Yeah I’ve actually seen a few of her videos before, which is probably where I heard the term subspace before, and I’m already broadly familiar with D-type/S-type. I just wasn’t super familiar with what exactly “subspace” means, beyond “a state of mind entered by S-types during play”. So your response to this meme describing a state of mind of “I do not think” as being like subspace was intriguing to me.

                  But I don’t think I’ve seen that particular video before. Will watch. Thanks!

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  •  anton   ( @anton@lemmy.blahaj.zone ) 
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    Look at that moron thinking that (a→b)→(¬a→¬b)
    doesn’t he know that
    (a→b)→(¬b→¬a)

    •  _MusicJunkie   ( @_MusicJunkie@beehaw.org ) OP
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      Do not speak the forbidden language of formal logic here. We do not think.

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