97% sure someone posted this at some point, but I think it’s been a while… ⊙﹏⊙
I can make this easier, at least for anyone interacting with me:
If you’re reading this, you - yes, you - have my full and explicit permission to compliment me, flirt with me, or ask me out. I am extremely good at saying no if needed and promise not to be offended if you make the first move.
Also you’re cute 😘
They shot every shot at once, this strategy is crazy
I’m aggressively poly so, yeah. I’m constantly shooting all of the shots.
Samesies!
OMG! We’re both poly?
What if we kissed 👉👈
Jk… unless?
I have one question for you: girls?
Among other people 😘
I can see the pronouns in your username. I wouldn’t be flirting if I wasn’t interested
Ah, girls 😌 delightful
The answer to that question better be “Just want to have fun”.
The answer is “Absolutely”
If you’d like to say what kind of polyam?
Relationship Anarchy
Basically I do what I feel, don’t like labels, and won’t ever ask anyone I’m with to restrict themselves on my accountEdit: You don’t need me to explain XD
Was looking through your post history and you seem really cool!
😁 Yeah, we are well versed in R.A and glad others are too and practicing it!
Awh, thanks, we appreciate that!
Feel free to hmu on matrix if you like. You seem cool
Okay, added.
Okay, so let me rebut this point for point:
- Permission doesn’t help when I don’t know how
- I’m terrified that you’ll say no, so that doesn’t help either
- Wha- I’m not cute! You’re cute! Wait, no, I mean… Sh-shut up!
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You’ve already done it, see point 3
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How can I say no when I’ve already said yes? At least to the initial conversation anyways
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If you don’t think you’re cute, prove it 😘 Send me a picture of you, I bet you’re cute af
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99% sure that’s pretty normal for healthy minded people, men, women, trans, non-binary etc.
Making the first move is taking a risk: aka being vulnerable. It’s when they don’t respond enthusiastically and you don’t stop that it’s a problem.
It is normal to feel some degree of trepidation when taking a risk: aka being vulnerable, but I don’t think its a stretch of the imagination to assert that it might be more stressful if you don’t have a firm grasp of neurotypical social graces and nonverbal communication.
As an autistic person, what has worked quite well for me, though takes getting used to, is very transparently communicating about intentions and consent. It can seem quite intense but it does mean everyone knows where they stand and where boundaries lie.
This is one of the many reasons why my life is easier now that I’ve transitioned from male to female. Now when I do something cringy and weird in order to flirt, people just think it’s cute.
I’m on the good side of the double standard now!
I mean not having gender dysphoria anymore’s a bigger plus, but ya know, count ya blessings.
this sounds great but unfortunately is not guaranteed to work (ask me how I know). Terms and conditions apply
Hell even cis lesbians struggle with this a lot (afaict it’s the source of the infamous top shortage)
Wait… all the lesbians I’ve seen were wearing tops in public.
Oh you mean those tops.
Gosh I still feel like a predator
Maybe I should have just stayed in the vore community, I was in demand lol
You never know what you’ll find out there.
The vote what now? Do i wanna knowಠ_ಠ
gender dysphoria really is a massive debuff
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No worries I will make the first move
Pawn to e4
Checkmate.
Your move.
😎
Mate? That’s very forward and a primal way to put it but hey why not
Im not fem and i feel like this so many times. What i fear most, much more than rejection is overstepping social lines. Also if youre a woman pls make the first move, its extremely hot if the guy is a switch i can tell you that lol.
so me… accelerated by the fact i’m asexual and most of my romantic interests r also asexual. i feel weird for wanting to express love chat 🥀🥀
We’re demi and enm so we kind of just become friends with people and hope it works out.
harass me.
You should smile more
that’s… kinda hilarious.
HEY!
LISTEN!
Ok.
Hi.
Devious harassment cloaked as a common greeting!
This is why, despite everything wrong with them, I prefer using dating sites. As long as everyone knows that the communal goal is flirting, it feels a little bit less like I’m bothering them and more like I’m entertaining them.
Holy shit, actually tho.
This is how I figured out I was Aro/Ace.
god why is that so real
Once you get passed the mask my default mode of interaction is flirting! Still too shy to be actually vulnerable tho.
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