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LadyButterfly she/her ( LadyButterfly@piefed.blahaj.zone ) M to WomensStuff@piefed.blahaj.zoneEnglish · 1 year ago

I see their point...

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LadyButterfly she/her ( LadyButterfly@piefed.blahaj.zone ) M to WomensStuff@piefed.blahaj.zoneEnglish · 1 year ago
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  • hungryphrog ( hungryphrog@lemmy.blahaj.zone ) 
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    inb4 “not all men!!!”

    • LadyButterfly she/her ( LadyButterfly@piefed.blahaj.zone ) OP
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      It’s been up 3 hours and we’ve not had one Manosphere comment. I’m genuinely surprised.

      • ZDL ( ZDL@lazysoci.al ) 
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        Spoke too soon, I see. 🤣

        • LadyButterfly she/her ( LadyButterfly@piefed.blahaj.zone ) OP
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          Yep I jinxed it, sorry everyone!

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          deleted by creator

    • ZDL ( ZDL@lazysoci.al ) 
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      And right away men jump in. Because the poor little dears can’t help themselves: they simply MUST talk when one of those rare “thought” things cross what passes for their mind.

    • Phoenixz ( phoenixz@lemmy.ca ) Banned from community
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      • araneae ( araneae@beehaw.org ) Banned from community
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        The big move here is nod along silently to this post, secure in the knowledge that, whether or not the poster you’re contemplating is a dyed-in-the-wool misandrist or merely venting their frustrations with males in general, you are a Cool And Well Adjusted Dude who need not worry if he is One of the All Men or the Not All Men. You, Cool And Well Adjusted Dude, may simply say to yourself “a woman’s lot is hard and many women online bond over commisserating that fact, and indeed they may paint the male sex in a broad brush that is not perhaps fair to all males, but that is their business and I will leave them to it here on the Women’s Spaces online chat community.” Then you go about your day, secure in the knowledge that whether or not anyone even knows or recognizes you for your efforts, you are not one of these Philistine maladjusted males the women likely gripe at. You simply are you, and you are not insecure and do not need to check and ask permission to dwell in the venting spaces of the females, and even if you are not wanted in such places, you realize, you are also not needed.

        Being a man can be whatever you want, but most would agree it most definitely does not involve being a wet blanket and injecting this very tired Not All Men script into every single one of these venting communities.

        • LadyButterfly she/her ( LadyButterfly@piefed.blahaj.zone ) OP
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          Hey everyone reporting this thanks so much for keeping our community safe! If you read the comment properly you can see it’s supportive

      • originalucifer ( originalucifer@moist.catsweat.com ) 
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        Genuinely curious:

        did you bother to read the women-only rules of this sub, or are you just oblivious to where you post?

      • apotheotic (she/her) ( apotheotic@beehaw.org ) 
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        Genuinely curious: what do you do to make life as a woman easier?

  • ZDL ( ZDL@lazysoci.al ) 
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    Even just going with the makeup thing: they’re pure contrarians on that point. If they see someone with makeup they prefer women without it. If they see someone without makeup they prefer “a bit of” makeup.

    Basically the whole makeup thing is purest gaslighting.

    • kukui ( kukui@lemmy.blahaj.zone ) 
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      In my experience, if they see someone with “natural” makeup, they think she isn’t wearing makeup at all and that’s what they mean by preferring no makeup.

      • LadyButterfly she/her ( LadyButterfly@piefed.blahaj.zone ) OP
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        Yep! They don’t understand how much effort just that is

  • Sunshine (she/her) ( Sunshine@lemmy.ca ) 
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    Women have every right to be outspoken, wear makeup, become muscular and have short hair.

  • Hildegard (she/her) ( hildegarde@lemmy.blahaj.zone ) 
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    There’s a reason why testosterone supplements are a controlled substance, but estrogen supplements are not.

    • Of the Air (cele/celes) ( oftheair@lemmy.blahaj.zone ) 
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      Yes, there is a reason but it’s nothing to do with it being dangerous or anything. It’s because of doping in sports, that’s all.

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