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  • stray ( stray@pawb.social ) 
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    I thought it was weird they were implying femboys can’t be straight, so I went to investigate. What they mean is that men who identify as heterosexual are finding themselves attracted to femboys and intentionally seeking pornography featuring them.

    https://archive.ph/Ok7z0

    I’m more confident than ever in my hypothesis that bi/pan is secretly the most common sexuality.

    • Melmi ( melmi@lemmy.blahaj.zone ) 
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      I think it’s a bit of a double entendre, because it’s also referencing this specific part of the report:

      As the stock of “femboys” rose, the fate of porn featuring “straight” guy porn has fallen. Searches for “straight” on PornhubGay tumbled nine spots to 19th place, just above “cruising” and two spots below “cute femboy.” (Notably, “straight guys first time” is still in the 6th spot, though it was knocked out of the top five.)

      So “straight” guys are “out” as a gay porn category and femboys are “in”.

    • JennyLaFae ( JennyLaFae@lemmy.blahaj.zone ) 
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      Iirc only about 10% on either end are fully gay or straight, with the other 80% having various shades of m-spec sexualities.

      Then you add kink/shame/taboo to the mix.

      And we also consider that many of these people are Pavlov training themselves to be aroused by their own pheromones in their goon caves in the absence of the complete sensory experience of sex.

    • AItoothbrush ( AI_toothbrush@lemmy.zip ) 
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      Ehh we didnt need no study for that. Think about how it always turns out that rich and powerfull people are bi or gay. Hell, the us president is one of them.

      • bear ( bear@lemmy.blahaj.zone ) 
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        A lot of people are mono under duress.

      • gandalf_der_12te ( gandalf_der_12te@discuss.tchncs.de ) 
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        i’ve considered that being bi helps with forging political alliances … so there’s an evolutionary advantage to it.

  • -☆- ( Star@lemmy.blahaj.zone ) 
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    Fuckin finally

    • gandalf_der_12te ( gandalf_der_12te@discuss.tchncs.de ) 
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      it was always inevitable xD

  • zaphod ( zaphod@sopuli.xyz ) 
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    Yes, femboys are in… my bed.

    • blinfabian ( blinfabian@feddit.nl ) 
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      where do you say i am? D:

  • Kairos ( LodeMike@lemmy.today ) 
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    So the person in that photo got an OnlyFans or?..

    • JayDee ( JayDee@lemmy.sdf.org ) 
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      Nonono I’m pretty sure that’s the article author, Matthew Rodriguez. /s

      but maybe.

  • alottachairs ( alottachairs@beehaw.org ) 
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    Okay so I’ve been thinking of being more feminine myself. I’ve started painting my nails and Im really feeling that direction. But I don’t want to attract strait men (ew gross). How to be fem boy but attract female or other fem boy?

    • djsoren19 ( djsoren19@lemmy.blahaj.zone ) 
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      This may shock you, but women are into femboys.

      • syl ( IndieSpren@lemmy.blahaj.zone ) 
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        can confirm

      • alottachairs ( alottachairs@beehaw.org ) 
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        Most hopeful thing I’ve heard in a while, thank you

    • deviantfemboi ( deviantfemboi@lemmy.blahaj.zone ) 
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      more women want to date me now because i present as a femboy. it’s hilarious, but understandable. they feel safer around me generally and appreciate makeup/style choices and my higher attention on emotions which i learned through the queer community.

    • PearOfJudes ( PearOfJudes@lemmy.ml ) 
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      I wouldn’t not dress/style yourself more feminine because you don’t want to attract straight men.

      • alottachairs ( alottachairs@beehaw.org ) 
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        I shouldn’t not always be what isn’t and wasn’t and couldn’t not be instead. So might as well rule.

    • scoobford ( scoobford@lemmy.zip ) 
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      My best advice is not to worry about it. Everyone likes femboys, so you just decline any invitations you receive from men in the same way you would decline unwanted advances from a woman/enby/etc. you find unattractive.

      • alottachairs ( alottachairs@beehaw.org ) 
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        Thank you! I’m just gonna worry about feeling pretty and I think rest will work itself out lol

  • Evil Kitty ( Una@europe.pub ) 
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    HELL YEAH :3

  • Wren ( Wren@lemmy.today ) 
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    My kingdom for a dominant femboy. I need a body that can rock booty shorts and pigtails, with the personality of Magneto.

    • Gebruikersnaam ( Gebruikersnaam@lemmy.ml ) 
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      As a dominant transfem: send the subby ones to me >:]

    • gandalf_der_12te ( gandalf_der_12te@discuss.tchncs.de ) 
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      twintails are the wintails

  • Rozaŭtuno ( Rozauhtuno@lemmy.blahaj.zone ) 
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    Nature is healing.

  • melsaskca ( melsaskca@lemmy.ca ) 
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    So human types are just like seasonal paint colours? Who will be in style next? One thing is for sure…they’ll all be wearing Blundstone boots.

  • paris ( paris@lemmy.blahaj.zone ) 
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    hunnypaint on the cover :D

  • w3dd1e ( W3dd1e@lemmy.zip ) 
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    They banned porn in good ol’ straight republican states.

    /s

    • Bongles ( Bongles@lemmy.zip ) 
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      So this is why, republican leaders are struggling with the realization that they’re attracted to femboys in their porn so they have to ban porn outright.

      /s? Maybe?

  • trslim ( trslim@pawb.social ) 
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    FUCKING BASED MY PEOPLE ARE SO IN

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