I know I shouldn’t say this cos y’know, female empowerment, body positive etc…but I don’t think good things. I’ve got middle aged spread starting and I can’t shake it without making massive diet and exercise changes. i used to have great boobs but they really aren’t nice now. I’m not in bad shape but I truly hate my stomach and boobs.
In terms of body positivity, I don’t like the way the advocacy for something like body positivity makes us feel as individuals guilty for our feelings - it’s like we have to deal with feeling bad about our bodies in ways we were socialized to experience, but then on top of that we are meant to feel guilty for having been socialized that way?
I dunno, I think we should shed the guilt and just recognize it’s complicated, but that feeling bad about your body isn’t the same as perpetuating body norms on others. I think we should at least offer ourselves that respite.
I know I shouldn’t say this cos y’know, female empowerment, body positive etc…but I don’t think good things. I’ve got middle aged spread starting and I can’t shake it without making massive diet and exercise changes. i used to have great boobs but they really aren’t nice now. I’m not in bad shape but I truly hate my stomach and boobs.
I, too, hate my stomach and boobs 😰
In terms of body positivity, I don’t like the way the advocacy for something like body positivity makes us feel as individuals guilty for our feelings - it’s like we have to deal with feeling bad about our bodies in ways we were socialized to experience, but then on top of that we are meant to feel guilty for having been socialized that way?
I dunno, I think we should shed the guilt and just recognize it’s complicated, but that feeling bad about your body isn’t the same as perpetuating body norms on others. I think we should at least offer ourselves that respite.