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TotallynotJessica ( TotallynotJessica@lemmy.blahaj.zone ) M to 196@lemmy.blahaj.zoneEnglish · 4 months ago

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TotallynotJessica ( TotallynotJessica@lemmy.blahaj.zone ) M to 196@lemmy.blahaj.zoneEnglish · 4 months ago
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  • thisbenzingring ( thisbenzingring@lemmy.today ) 
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    I’m not autistic but I was often called out as a kid for not showing any emotions on my face until I got angry.

    Later in life I discovered that in the old world, Lakota men were expected to have an emotionally blank expression. And it was often misunderstood by white people.

    There was a group of young warriors that called themselves Ugly Faces and would try to make the hardest and scariest faces during hunting and battle. They were enjoying the highest of joy but trying not to show it.

  • DragonTypeWyvern ( DragonTypeWyvern@midwest.social ) Banned from community
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    Don’t let the Finns see this

    • SubArcticTundra ( SubArcticTundra@lemmy.ml ) 
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      Or eastern europeans

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      • SharkWeek ( SharkWeek@lemmy.blahaj.zone ) 
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        deleted by creator

  • Swedneck ( Swedneck@discuss.tchncs.de ) 
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    Edited for personal accuracy:

    • SethranKada ( SethranKada@lemmy.ca ) 
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      Same

    • TotallynotJessica ( TotallynotJessica@lemmy.blahaj.zone ) OP
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  • Catoblepas ( Catoblepas@lemmy.blahaj.zone ) 
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    Sometimes having a good time looks like this: >:|

    • Swedneck ( Swedneck@discuss.tchncs.de ) 
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      sometimes having a good time looks like this: >:3

  • morto ( morto@piefed.social ) 
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    That’s just me, except that I never had that great time,

  • ArmchairAce1944 ( ArmchairAce1944@discuss.online ) 
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    This is why I don’t sit in the front row seat of stand up comedian routines. I can sometimes show zero expression or look distracted while actually greatly enjoying the act.

  • Shellofbiomatter ( Shellofbiomatter@lemmus.org ) 
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    Well, expressing emotions requires overwhelming visceral emotions, but those are kinda vague and weak/barely existing things. Those are just mostly background subconscious subroutines/thinking patterns, only noticable when observed over long time frames(years). Not something that actually has the power to cause facial expressions.

    Though i have alexithymia too, so just a blind person guessing the colors of the rainbow.

    • TotallynotJessica ( TotallynotJessica@lemmy.blahaj.zone ) OP
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      Ironically enough, my alexthymia means that I often don’t know when my face is expressing emotions. I might be grinning ear to ear and assume I have a poker face

      • Shellofbiomatter ( Shellofbiomatter@lemmus.org ) 
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        Yeah that can happen as well. The body can express some emotion, but I’m completely oblivious of it.

  • SystemDisc ( SystemDisc@feddit.org ) 
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    I feel this. This one woman at work asks me what’s wrong practically every single day. I always tell her I’m doing well and she doesn’t believe me. I’m an autistic Principal Software Engineer. This is just how I am lol

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    got to look like character from video made with garrys mod to convince others you are having fun

  • drosophila ( drosophila@lemmy.blahaj.zone ) 
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    This is why I like kuudere characters.

    They’re not exactly perfect autism representation, but they’re autism coded, and having difficulty expressing emotions is relatable.

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